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'Cuddly' Sleeping

138 replies

Sarahh2014 · 20/01/2018 22:24

I hate it dh loves it.I like my own space when trying to get to sleep full stop but he's very much the opposite.so AIBU? I don't think I am 😁

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annandale · 20/01/2018 22:25

I hate it. Buy him a teddy bear?

zeebeedee · 20/01/2018 22:27

I hate it too!

McTufty · 20/01/2018 22:27

Ahhh I love it!

wheresthel1ght · 20/01/2018 22:27

My exh took it as a personal insult that I wouldn't cuddle him or let him cuddle me in bed. I have personal space issues for one but I like to have room to move about.

Dp is ace, he will get in, give me a hug and a kiss and then sod off to the furthest side of the bed and leave me to sleep. Bloody love that man 😁

Tweetiepie1000 · 20/01/2018 22:28

I hate cuddling when going to sleep!

I get too hot or uncomfortable and then get really grumpy that I’m too hot and/or uncomfortable and end up getting pissy with DH for making me too hot and uncomfortable.

I have taken to having separate duvets now too. Blush

Bambamber · 20/01/2018 22:28

YANBU I like room to fidget, I also get too hot very quickly

Cleanermaidcook · 20/01/2018 22:28

He'll no, I need space when I'm sleeping!
Dh has a pillow he cuddles in the night 😂😂

user1493413286 · 20/01/2018 22:29

I need space to sleep too!

LoniceraJaponica · 20/01/2018 22:29

I hate it. I need my own space to be able to sleep, so does OH. We turn our backs on each other to sleep.

Me264 · 20/01/2018 22:30

God no. Cuddle before sleeping, then retreat to own sides of the bed, do not cross the middle line.

Also I look forward to when DH is away for the night with work so I don't have to have him in the bed at all

mammymammyIRL · 20/01/2018 22:32

With my ex in college I would happily sleep all night cuddled up to him but he was very skinny, dh is quite overweight and I don't find it nice at all to cuddle up to him. First time I've ever thought about why that is actually

FluffyWuffy100 · 20/01/2018 22:34

Cuddle. Kiss night night. Roll away and sleep comfortably. Those are the rules.

GrooovyLass · 20/01/2018 22:36

We don't live together but one will stay with the other at least once a week. We cuddle up when we go to bed then pull apart to actually sleep. Don't know how you could fall asleep tangled up with someone else!

RandomMess · 20/01/2018 22:36

I cuddle DH for a bit to keep him happy then I buggar off! Can't bear him cuddling me...

Boulshired · 20/01/2018 22:39

Hate it but his snoring made it easier, I can complain that if he falls asleep to close to my ears I can’t sleep myself.

Sarahh2014 · 20/01/2018 22:40

Don't get me wrong affection at any other time great I am v affectionate with him but fuck off to your side of the bed already 😉

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Gileswithachainsaw · 20/01/2018 22:41

Hate it. I' wish I could have my own room.

My own bed.

I'd tell dp to fuck off after back to his room Grin

Spartaca · 20/01/2018 22:41

Hate it with adults, love it with kids.

Hogtini · 20/01/2018 22:43

I can only sleep like this in the time between alarm number 2 in the morning (10 mins). DP loves being intertwined..me not so much.

StarShapedWindow · 20/01/2018 22:46

I find it hard to get to sleep without cuddling. But if DH falls asleep before me the cuddle gets too heavy and hot and I need to move.

PoorYorick · 20/01/2018 22:46

Husband and I both love it but I can understand why not everyone would. Sleep much better in his arms though.

bellie710 · 20/01/2018 22:48

Hate it, can cope for about 1 minute then it is too hot leave me alone!

HemanOrSheRa · 20/01/2018 22:48

Argghh. No. Nope. A few nights ago DP and I both turned over in bed at the same time to face each other and ended up touching knees . I HATE being touched when I'm sleeping and DP does too, thank goodness. Although I am more than happy to sleep with DS in my arms.

RedialCallHold · 20/01/2018 22:50

I hate it, luckily so does my husband! If we're going to bed at the same time then it's cuddle, turn of light, move faaaar away from each other Grin

Hawkmoth · 20/01/2018 22:51

Bolster.

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