@Booboobooboo84 my sympathies to people who suffer gender dysphoria.
But it's a man. I'm not sensationalising. I'm stating a fact, whether or not you choose to accept that is up to you. And I'd say the very same about the opposite... it's a woman.
I think reminders are in the system because it costs more to treat cancer than to prevent it or treatment with early detection. Opt out would be good, but as admitted people miss it even with the reminders. I think it's better to be reminded, because it's not something we routinely think about in our daily lives.