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Not impressed with the daily chanting. Do other secondary schools do this?

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ReanimatedSGB · 12/01/2018 09:00

DS is in Year 8 and he has told me that, at the start of every lesson, they all have to stand up and chant together, something along the lines of 'we promise to be good and work hard' (OK that's NOT the wording, don';t want to give exact wording in case it outs us).

Every lesson FFS. This strikes me as a waste of time (DS told me that the class took to dragging it out as much as possible in lessons no one likes) and... well. a bit creepy and cultish. AIBU?

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BarbarianMum · 12/01/2018 09:04

I wonder why the school think it's necessary? Could it be that there are issues with behaviour in class.

Honestly, how much time does it waste? 30 sec? 1 minute?

echt · 12/01/2018 09:05

It does sound a bit, er... shite, but then back in the day I went for interview at an RC school who had prayers before every lesson. Much the same, but the advantage of your DS's school is that the responsibility lies within the child, not an invisible friend.

I still think it's horrid and would be making enquiries as to why they think this is needed.

PollyShelbyLifeCoachServices · 12/01/2018 09:09

My girls have a teacher in year 7 that has the class recite a poem about how awesome he is at the beginning of every lesson and my kids love him😀 its perhaps to get them to engage and feel included, bet your son cringes inside
, i would have.

ReanimatedSGB · 12/01/2018 09:15

The school has had a 'rebrand' lately, which I have been keeping an eye on. I picked it for DS because it seemed like a nice, no-bullshit happy sort of school. Since then a new HT has come in, and there have been a few indicators of trouble ahead but they have mostly died down.

Because one of my lines of work is education-related, I take a dim view of many 'initiatives' which appear to do nothing but cost money, waste time and placate the wingnuts in government who know nothing about children (the obsession with fucking blazers and ties and 'discipline'. the endless testing, the culture of snooping and spying and harassing...).

DS said that it could be worse, they could be in America and have to pledge allegiance to a flag. I agreed with him on that one...

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Eltonjohnssyrup · 12/01/2018 09:17

There's some sort of psychology (or at least theory) behind this. They do it in call centres as well. It's something to do with people who have low motivation and low incentive to engage. If they keep repeating the chants they eventually get psychologically tricked into subliminally believing it. A bit iffy in call centres. But okay in schools.

Eltonjohnssyrup · 12/01/2018 09:18

It doesn't cost money, take much time and it's not government policy.

BarbarianMum · 12/01/2018 09:19

I would strongly suggest that you pick your battles. Unfortunately, given current education initiatives, the question "will this harm my child" is a pertinent one. If the answer is no, then I suggest you save your energy for those that will.

BillywigSting · 12/01/2018 09:24

I think barbarian has hit the nail on the head here.

It was wise to pick your battles with schools 15 years ago, it seems even wiser now (though I do think it could verge onto creepy territory depending on the wording. Something like 'i promise to work hard and do my best' I doubt I'd have a problem with, but I can see how it could be more sinister)

lookingforthecorkscrew · 12/01/2018 09:25

I worked as a teacher at a school that did this, I fucking hated it. It’s the thin end of the wedge...

BarbarianMum · 12/01/2018 09:31

It isn't necessarily the thin end of a wedge though is it? Might just be a rather daft initiative to "instill core values" and improve behaviour. We used to have to stand up when a teacher entered the room and recite the school motto every day (in latin, which none of us spoke) in assembly. This was a state comp, misty-eyed for it's former glory as a grammer school.

Unless you are worried about the contents of the chant, just enjoy an eye-roll w your son and tell him to crack on.

redexpat · 12/01/2018 09:31

Certain teachers used to make us stand up at the start of the lesson until we were invited to sit down. Later on one told us it just sends a signal that the lesson starts now, so pay attention. It could be a version of that.

ChickenPaws · 12/01/2018 09:31

Year 8?

Sounds like the sort of thing they’d do in infant school.

ReanimatedSGB · 12/01/2018 09:42

It's because it has a potential psychological affect that I'm not wild about it. Schools should not be trying to brainwash children into unquestioning obedience (no matter how much the government and the Daily Fail think they should be doing exactly that). At present, the wording of the chant is... not too bad, just about doing your best and behaving well.
I know we have to pick our battles. I was expecting one about hair when I saw the new school handbook, but I waited... and nothing happened, so they've been sensible about that.

Of course it could be a cunning double bluff - give the kids something blatantly stupid to rebel against so they focus on that instead of anything more harmful, and get on with their lessons in the meantime.

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weepingangel12 · 12/01/2018 09:43

There's some sort of psychology (or at least theory) behind this. They do it in call centres as well. It's something to do with people who have low motivation and low incentive to engage. If they keep repeating the chants they eventually get psychologically tricked into subliminally believing it.

Having worked in places like that, I can tell you that all you subliminally (and superliminally!) believe is that the people making you do it are utter asshats and you need to get a new job, quick. It lowers motivation and gives even less incentive to engage.

OP, I'd tell him not to join in if he doesn't want to, just to stand respectfully. Like if they were doing prayers.

Eltonjohnssyrup · 12/01/2018 09:51

Schools should not be trying to brainwash children into unquestioning obedience (no matter how much the government and the Daily Fail think they should be doing exactly that).

Where you quite as vocal about this when the last Labour government did exactly that? They abolished the requirement for critical thinking to be included in education and hugely politicised education, constantly pumping children with message after message promoting their agenda. Did you get as worked up as you did about this chant? Or are you okay with brainwashing as long as you like the message?

weepingangel12 · 12/01/2018 10:05

They abolished the requirement for critical thinking to be included in education and hugely politicised education, constantly pumping children with message after message promoting their agenda

Evidence please? Sounds like paranoid nonsense without any. Constantly pumping children with messages like what? And how? Have you confused Labour and North Korea?

etap · 12/01/2018 10:33

O Captain, my Captain! Grin

ReefAndRiz · 12/01/2018 10:36

Poor kids, poor parents, poor staff.

theEagleIsLost · 12/01/2018 10:49

No but DD1 complains that five minutes of most lessons is lost even when the class hasn't moved rooms as the pens the children had previously have disappeared.

ReanimatedSGB · 12/01/2018 10:50

Elton: when the last Labour government were running education, it wasn't on my radar because a) DS was in Reception and b) I wasn't working in the sector. But it does appear that most of the worst fuckery has come in since 2010.

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Ragwort · 12/01/2018 10:54

redex - when I was at secondary school (1970s Blush) we had to stand up when the teacher arrived and chant 'Good Morning/Afternoon Mrs/Miss X) ........ I guess it is about signalling that the lesson is about to begin and stop talking and messing about.

constantchange · 12/01/2018 10:56

YABU, I couldn't get worked up about this.

BertrandRussell · 12/01/2018 10:56

"constantly pumping children with message after message promoting their agenda."

Really? Like what?

I can actually see how the chanting thing might work really well to get kids all facing front and focussing.

leccybill · 12/01/2018 10:57

If you mean 'Thinking Skills', it was a huge waster of money, training and curriculum time.

FithColumnist · 12/01/2018 11:00

In a school local to me, the register at the beginning of the lesson has changed from “Joe Bloggs?” “Yes sir,” to somethig along the lines of “Joe Bloggs, are you ready to learn?” “Yes, Mr Smith, I am ready to learn!” The pupils are repremanded and made to repeat the phrase if they say it in anything less than a positive and cheerful manner. It takes bloody ages and it’s creepy as all hell.

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