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Weird food combos

203 replies

MrsMaxwell · 07/01/2018 10:12

DH isn’t very confident when it comes to cooking. So if he does cook I try to just leave him to it.

He’s been off work for two weeks and at home (he’s in the forces and lives on base so when he’s home he’s not working but I am).

He’s been cooking dinner every night for the first time in 8 years which is great.

But he does some really weird food combos. Pie with baked beans (two wet things?) and chops with mash and cauliflower cheese (two carbs?) are two examples.

I wouldn’t and haven’t said anything but WTAF?

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Ifailed · 07/01/2018 10:35

They aren't odd at all. He is probably recreating what he sees on offer in the mess.

^This. I think it's good he's cooking family meals, maybe you could show him some of your favourite combinations and how to cook them? You never know what fun you can have in a kitchen!

jaseyraex · 07/01/2018 10:37

You don't have gravy with pie?! Unless it's chock full of gravy inside, isn't it really dry? You're the weird one OP Grin

tabbywabby · 07/01/2018 10:38

Cauliflower is very low carb, cheese is low (or zero) carb. Cauliflower cheese is pretty carb. I probably wouldn't serve it with mash, but there's nothing 'weird' about it and it's not 'a carb'.

Pie (maybe not Kiev) is served with gravy and/or beans pretty much all over the UK in cafes and pubs. It's totally normal, including in the South.

I think your ideas are odder than his. Maybe you affect his confidence.

tabbywabby · 07/01/2018 10:45

^ "Cauliflower cheese is pretty low carb" that was supposed to say.

It's not a starch like potatoes or rice. I serve it with roasts all the time, and eat it when I am doing ridiculously low carb dieting.

TeddyIsaHe · 07/01/2018 10:47

Cauliflower and cheese aren’t carbs 😂

Anasnake · 07/01/2018 10:47

Cauliflower rice is sold as a low carb alternative too

MrsMaxwell · 07/01/2018 10:47

I either do cauliflower cheese or potatoes 🤗

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ButFirstTea · 07/01/2018 10:47

I don't understand where the rule about two wets or two carbs has come from?! Don't people have egg and beans in a breakfast, or pie and mash/chips etc? Or a roast dinner which contains who knows how many sauces and carb combinations? The meals he's making sound fine!

gingercat02 · 07/01/2018 10:50

Cheese is about 80% fat. Cauli is a vegetable. There might be a little bit of carbohydrate in the white sauce. Definitely not a carb

Floellabumbags · 07/01/2018 11:01

I think it's pretty unanimous that your husband is the normal one in your house Wink

ticketytock1 · 07/01/2018 11:06

Op imo you are the weird one! Cheese is high fat / protein and low carb
Cauli is def low carb
Nothing wrong with pie and beans!

JustAnIdiot · 07/01/2018 11:07

Cauliflower cheese or potatoes??

My DS & DH would be starving after just cauliflower cheese as an accompaniment - nothing like enough calories.

There is carbohydrate in the flour in the cheese sauce, but not much overall.

As for pie & beans/gravy/mushy peas, yes, absolutely normal - I'm from the Midlands & live in Yorkshire.

Polopolopolo · 07/01/2018 11:08

You have dry pie op ??!

Nowt worse get some pea wet on it!

Polopolopolo · 07/01/2018 11:09

And Kiev, new potatoes and beans is amazing ya Grin

MrsMaxwell · 07/01/2018 11:20

But the beans mix in with the pie filling Confused

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x2boys · 07/01/2018 11:21

So ?

Anasnake · 07/01/2018 11:23

Have you never had cheese pie and beans op ? It's food of the gods.

JustAnIdiot · 07/01/2018 11:24

You don't have to mix the beans in, but it's fine if the two combine. Beans & other wet accompaniments best eaten with the pastry, IMO.

I prefer ketchup/fruity sauce with pie, rather than beans as it happens, but beans are good.

NotSureThisIsWhatIWant · 07/01/2018 11:24

Cauliflower is not a carb.

My pet hate is when they give you two carbs, like rice and chips with a protein and no vegetable, or wraps with rice (yuk)

SpoonfulOfJam · 07/01/2018 11:24

Your partners meals sound lush.

Tell us more about the meals you serve up....

wowfudge · 07/01/2018 11:25

I think this thread has established that your DH ain't the weird one when it comes to food OP!

CheshireChat · 07/01/2018 11:28

I reacted very similarly to the OP, but my excuse is I'm a foreigner Grin. Though don't see the issue with pie and gravy.

5foot5 · 07/01/2018 11:31

I think it's pretty unanimous that your husband is the normal one in your house

I second this ^

I almost wonder if you are being deliberately provocative by continuing to insist your DH's food choices are weird when most people find them outstandingly normal.

MrsMaxwell · 07/01/2018 11:34

I almost wonder if you are being deliberately provocative by continuing to insist your DH's food choices are weird when most people find them outstandingly normal.

I cannot believe you are taking this thread that seriously Grin

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XiCi · 07/01/2018 11:39

This is hilarious. Yep is definitely you that's weird OP. Cheese is not a carb, cauliflower is a very low carb veg. Basically your DH served meat, potatoes and veg which has got to be the most normal of meals you can get!

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