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AIBU?

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To let the kids "starve"!

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Wilberforce2 · 01/01/2018 18:35

Ds 9 and Dd 3.5 both have form for not eating dinner, frequent moans of "but I don't like it" can be heard coming from my kitchen at least 5 times a week. I'm sick of it now, ds is the worst and Dd eats much better if ds isn't here (at football or a friends etc) so she has definitely picked it up from him.

Anyway earlier today I cooked a lovely (in my opinion!) lamb roast with everything that they like and only gave them peas and carrots as they are veg that they will both eat but they barely touched it. Dd said she wasn't hungry and ds said he didn't really like it (he has had it a thousand times before), so I'd had enough and told them both to leave the table and that there would be no more food until breakfast tomorrow.

Ds currently just stamped up the stairs in a strop because he is "starving to death" and Dd is intermittently crying because she wants a lolly from the freezer. Dh is close to caving in and giving them toast or fruit but I say we keep going and they can go to bed bloody hungry because I'm fed up with them!!

So AIBU to let them "starve" at least until 7am tomorrow?

OP posts:
EleanorXx · 01/01/2018 23:29

Just seen you update. In that case Yanbu. He is just trying it on.

wiltingfast · 02/01/2018 22:32

Ellyn Satter is vg actually. She's written a book which helped me enormously.

How to get you child to eat, but not too much

Also I say to my kids, they just don't like it yet

Takes time for them to become familiar with new food, no harm at all to acknowledge that for everyone.

Sounds you did good OP!

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