To think, what the f*ck????

[Dsmummy]

I have an iPhone. My partner used to have and we shared a computer to update and all that stuff.
Been together 5 years, have two children together and he has an older son that lives with us 50/50.
I was just listening to my recordings of our little boy when he was tiny cooing and trying to talk. Then I stumble across 3 recordings of my partners whispering that must have merged with mine from the computer. For example:
"It's September 23rd. She's trying to say SS broke the baby gate just because he was upstairs near it at the time. I have photo evidence, repeat photo evidence of the break. She's saying it was him. Again, September 23rd"
And a couple more like that
What in the hell?! Am I being unreasonable to think that's not normal behaviour

As you say, what the fuck?!

That's odd. Really really odd.
What do the other sayings say? (I'm intrigued as you can see)

I know! I don't really know what to do about it.

What do the other ones say?
Have you had any marriage problems?

It's like he's gathering evidence of what you've done against ss........

Sounds like he was recording evidence against you.

Do or did you in his eyes blame ss for a lot of things?

Maybe he was playing at being an international spy

Definitely not normal behaviour . Weird.

Ask him? Have you got a history of problems with your dss? Has it caused issues in your relationship?

Has there been friction over step son before this?

It sounds like a log of evidence.

This seems like paranoid behaviour. How is your relationship with him? Is he controlling or mistrustful?

Cripes. I’d be so unsettled, I’d need to bring it up.

Then again without more context, I’m not sure that’s what you should do. I guess it depends on your dp and whether he’s generally a reasonable and safe person to confront.

How very odd!

Sounds like evidence. Suggest u call him out on it and demand all of it

That's what I think it sounds like. There's nothing recent, it's so bizarre.
I get on pretty well with SS. He is just starting to be really naughty at school (13 yrs) and I do get frustrated because he's viewed by my partner as pure gold lol but I've never argued with SS or even told him off really. I'll have to listen again because I was so shocked only one of them sunk in!

The question is, who really broke the baby gate?

Very strange. It does sound like he was trying to gather evidence against you about being unfair to your SS. Has there been any mention/arguments about this?

Have you had a look if there's any other strange recordings?

Wow. If you've never even argued with your SS, it's even weirder. It's not fair on you to have recorded that.

Definitely evidence gathering of your transgressions against DSS. As if he was thinking of leaving you over it perhaps?

Wtf

Do you remember what happened with the gate?

This is really fucking bonkers

Yy to evidence. Has there been friction over your relationship with his son before ?

Ooh! What do the others say OP?