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AIBU that people that rent shouldn't have pets

205 replies

Lloyd45 · 23/11/2017 19:41

My friend is having to find another rented property but can't find anywhere that will accept pets, she's asked me to have her 2 dogs, I have 2 dogs already but they will have to be put down if I don't have them 😞 Why do people who rent have pets when this puts them in a difficult position. I can see a lot of dogs being put down as homes will be more difficult to find

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LoveMyLittleSuperhero · 23/11/2017 20:18

Lots of landlords in my area don't accept children... Clearly renters shouldn't be allowed children either...

Or we could just rent from Landlords who do accept our pets. I had to move at incredibly short notice a couple of years ago and managed to find a landlord who was willing to accept my dogs.

YABU

HermionesRightHook · 23/11/2017 20:18

I think landlords should all be licenced, and much more highly regulated. Part of that would be the right of the tenant to have pets if they want them.

Now, I also agree that if that happened there should be extra deposits involved, a post tenancy cleaning fee and perhaps some sort of insurance - that's only reasonable to protect the property - but it should be commensurate with the type of pet, you shouldn't be paying bored-Shiba-Inu insurance for a hamster. But it shouldn't just be banned.

HermionesRightHook · 23/11/2017 20:20

Oh yes, and landlords banning children is fucking inhumane and should not be possible. And that certainly shouldn't attract a higher deposit.

OCSockOrphanage · 23/11/2017 20:21

It probably depends where in the country you are for landlords' tolerance of pets, or not. We are in a rural area and dogs, or cats, would not usually be a problem (as long as you tick the LL's other boxes). In a high rise apartment, it might be a negative.

MyCatIsPlottingToKillMe · 23/11/2017 20:22

We've just - with some difficulty - had to buy our own place because although we always found a rental place that would accept our cats eventually, a lot of landlords are funny about pets (I love the positive discrimination catneuterer, wish you'd been our LL ! Grin ) and it was severely limiting our choices.

The last straw was having to move twice in quick succession (nothing to do with the pets, the LL wanted to sell each time) and actually considering a landlord who thought he was being very generous by saying that we could stay there as long as the cats only poo'ed indoors, not in the garden, and we'd be evicted if they fought with the next door neighbours cats at all (along with our kids).

This for about £2K a month in zone 3, and despite the fact that they were already asking for double the deposit in case of damage (which, by the way, our cats have rarely caused and when they have we've paid for it).

At that point we decided that we'd much rather be in control have a more stable home.

YABVU to say that someone renting has to somehow be in limbo and not be able to make a decent home (including pets if they want them).

Do you notice all those pet owners with their own houses having massive scratches down the walls, or poo or wee smells everywhere? Of course not, because they're largely responsible pet owners, and so are the renters!

Lloyd45 · 23/11/2017 20:22

She has 2 lively cocker Spaniels. I have already taken on one rescue dog, I help in a rescue home and I tell you now the dogs that aren't rehomed in a certain amount of time are put down, there is a long waiting list of new dogs waiting to be rehomed. Healthy dogs are put down every day.

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DeleteOrDecay · 23/11/2017 20:22

We rent and have a cat. Have lived here for almost 3 years, landlord is fine with it. Why shouldn't we have a pet? Why should be children miss out on the experience of having a family pet just because we're not in a position to own our home?

SingleAF · 23/11/2017 20:22

Erm, I used to own a house and now rent due to divorce etc. What do you suggest I should do with my aging cats then. Euthanasia? Drop them in a bin?

MyCatIsPlottingToKillMe · 23/11/2017 20:22

Yes, and landlords that won't accept children is insane!

cathyclown · 23/11/2017 20:23

Pets smell, cat pee smells, they moult and leave hairs everywhere. They can destroy furniture and shit everywhere outside.

That was the opening gambit.

I know you are all perfect and your animals are perfect and all that jazz, but not every pet owner is. That is the reality.

Animal lovers will rent to animal lovers. Others will not in a million years.

Anyway some if not many covenants in flat complexes do not allow animals anymore.

I do not agree with OP regarding putting them down AT ALL. There must be another way.

Gemini69 · 23/11/2017 20:23

She'll actually put her dogs down if You won't take them ? that's emotional BLACKMAIL WTAF .... this is not your problem OP Hmm

Skarossinkplunger · 23/11/2017 20:23

We rent with two dogs, never had a problem. An estate agent once said to me “I don’t know why people don’t accepts pets, children do far more damage to a house”.

idfwu · 23/11/2017 20:24

I would rather live without the rent than have anyone with a cat in my properties.

PurplePillowCase · 23/11/2017 20:26

yabu
however, everyone who wants to keep a pet needs to consider what that pet really needs to be happy and healthy and that includes considering the home environment.

hellofresh · 23/11/2017 20:26

Why is it snobby to state no pets? Surely it is common sense where demand is such that the LL won't have difficulty letting the property to someone else. Pets cause far more wear and tear and leave a smell. I speak as a pet owner, and I'm not a LL.

HermionesRightHook · 23/11/2017 20:26

Feel free to sell up your properties to landlords that will allow pets then. Or better yet, sell to people who want to live in them themselves.

Frederickvonhefferneffer · 23/11/2017 20:27

I rent and have a cat, the cat keeps the rodent population under control.

mustbemad17 · 23/11/2017 20:28

I think it's snobby, sorry. Do people who don't allow pets also not allow kids? Been fostering 'damaged' rescue dogs for five years in my flat; can safely say my now 5 year old daughter has done more to the flat than they ever did 😂😂😂

Lloyd45 · 23/11/2017 20:29

I can't believe LL can say no children, I thought no pets was bad enough

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mustbemad17 · 23/11/2017 20:30

Yep, no kids is perfectly acceptable for LLs to stipulate sadly

Lloyd45 · 23/11/2017 20:31

Wow that is unbelievable they are allowed to say that, that is discrimination

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Mumoftwoyoungkids · 23/11/2017 20:33

This is one of the things that puts me off pet ownership - I just can’t imagine 16 years into the future.

Although it didn’t put me of kids. Hmm

OCSockOrphanage · 23/11/2017 20:36

Not really, properties are configured and located to appeal to different demographics. A property set up for two working professionals might not suit a family, because there was no access to outdoor play space within a mile, and it was on the 32nd floor of a tower block.

MissCherryCakeyBun · 23/11/2017 20:37

I stayed to long with my very violent exH as I was terrified I would have to have my dog put down. As I could find nowhere that I could take her in a refuge and could only afford a room in shared house Confused she was a German Shepherd xAkita rescue with brain damage she was beautiful and so docile but because of her brain damage couldn't be rehomed a 2nd time thru a shelter ....I asked around d a lot at the time. Bless her she got Cancer and eventually I had to have her PTS 😥 and then I LTB
I miss her everyday 5 years later.....

It's never as easy as you are led to believe

AIBU that people that rent shouldn't have pets
DeleteOrDecay · 23/11/2017 20:37

Cathy children smell, make mess, can ruin furniture and they can even piss or shit on the floor sometimes.

That's the reality.

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