I stand by everything I say in that LONG post of mine, so much so that I will repost it, for your reading pleasure.......
I have been reading this thread with interest over the last few days, and as someone who has never had - or wanted a FWB, I have to wonder what these women who claim they have one, do when their male shagging partner moves on. Do they advertise online for another one (like on tinder or fuckbuddies.com,) or with a little card in the window of the newsagents? I mean, seriously, how do you find these FWB's?
I am actually amused to read the posts by the women with FWBs who describe the relationship as a fun loving arrangement, with a gorgeous handsome man who is their best friend/soulmate, who gets up and cooks breakfast for them, who they have long walks and long cosy chats in front of the fire with, and who 'fucks off home' when SHE wants them to go.
Yeah, cos THAT happens! wink
Even if anyone on here actually does have a FWB, (and I seriously doubt many people claiming it do have one,) I bet an entire month's salary that their FWB does not describe them to their friends and acquaintances like the women on here are describing them!
I bet he says 'Yeah, I have got this bird on the side, she's a bit desperate, and a bit clingy, but if I fancy a blow-job, I just text her, and she's right there. I get out as fast as I can afterwards though; I don't wanna give her ideas that I want anything more than a fuck!'
The whole thread has been hilarious, with one poster after another describing their 'FWB' as their BFF and soulmate, and churning out lines that could have come from a rom-com or a cheesy chick-lit novel!
I know a few people have been rude (like dannitruth, calling people names,) but she was probably just pissed off with being ganged up on, by the gang of posters on here claiming they have a FWB and mocking people who don't have one, or want one.
This was in addition to them saying anyone who doesn't think it's a great idea must be JEALOUS, laughing and taking the piss out of 'prudes' who have never had a 'FWB,' and LOL-ing at each other's 'hilarious' posts, and patting each other on the back at how 'witty' and 'hilarious' they all are.
And the vile insults aimed at married women, calling them domestic slaves, stuck in dull, sexless marriages are disgusting, and really speak volumes about the people saying them. They are jealous and bitter, through and through.
I mean, no wonder a few posters have retaliated. Many of the posters who supposedly have FWBs, are hugely defensive and very rude, and the massive rants by @Graphista were hilarious. I have never seen anyone so angry and defensive in my life!
I know a few people make FWB set-ups work, but the reality is nothing like some posters are describing it on here. And you can rest assured (in most cases,) that the man in the FWB set-up probably doesn't feel the same about you, as you do about him - ('Oh he's my BFF, we have lovely long chats and lovely long walks and a grrrreat time together blah blah blah.') And as was said much earlier in the thread, yes someone WILL get emotionally attached, and it WILL be more likely to be the woman.
See ya. 