The argument about 'but it's silly to say someone who looks very feminine like Jazz Jennings shouldn't be in women's facilities',.
That situation has been fine for decades. Miranda Yardley has talked about this. People who are (as MY defines it) transsexual and have a GRC and have obviously spent their lives living as women have always just quietly used women's spaces for changing and toilets, and for the most part I've never seen anyone hesitate about it.
The situation has now changed.
We're now talking about the demand for that access to be extended to any man who at any time chooses to say the magic words 'I identify as'. This to include autogynephiles, cross dressers enjoying their fetish, 'genderfluid' people who want to change their minds as they feel like it, and people like Danielle Muscato, a fully male bodied, male dressed, beared guy with no dysphoria of any kind who insists that saying he's a woman entitles him to whatever part of the female estate he feels like appropriating. This is going to include people like the yobs who have assaulted women twice in the last few weeks in public places for representing (factual) views they didn't agree with, one of whom posted gleefully on twitter 'I wanna fuck up some terfs' before going to the meet, and this was 'loved' by the large Trans group Action for Trans Health who advised government on the coming gender bill and receive NHS funding. It's also going to inevitably include men who don't give a flying fuck about their gender but will love the huge extension of their rights and ability to commit varying degrees of sex crime.
The people who will suffer from these highly self indulgent, self involved, 'it's all about me' individuals such as Travis throwing tantrums and demanding access to wherever they want whenever they want it with the main thing being to break boundaries and get what they want and enjoy the kick that gives them, are the Miranda Yardleys and Jazz Jennings of this world. Because if women have to accept ANY guy with ANY motive who may well exploit his presence in an intimate space and can do this entirely at will then the only possible response will be to refuse to have any biological sex males in female sex areas. No matter what they look like.
Individuals like Travis have no more interest or conscience about this than they do about how women feel having their spaces invaded. In fact being empowered to do it against women's will makes the thrill even higher.