To think this "friendly guy" has crossed the line and I should tell his wife?

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There's this guy in my running club he's shy in person but not so much on social media. He's married I know his wife. There have been a few red flags here and there but mostly I assumed he was just being friendly... Well he sent me this DM today:

"This is such an inspiring image you've come so far and will continue on your quest to achieve your goals ps I need to borrow your abs xx"

Ive already deleted him/blocked him but also thinking of telling his wife.

If you feel uncomfortable with his remarks then block him. I'm not sure why you would tell his wife though, is she his responsible adult?

oh didn't rtft

Just rtft from start to finish...... 40 mins of my life I am never getting back

Sparkly..keep talking. Your conversations about yourself are just amazing.

Oh stop it guys

Don't make me start a thousand threads about you lot

Oh, c'mon, Sparkly, you know you're hot. I feel it too...

I think I like you RedBullBlood

Just rtft 🙈

Shocked this thread is still going. Seems to have the makings for an episode of a tv soap.

OP you are being a wally. Seems you like the attention and the drama. Run walk away. Engage no more with him and invest time with your DH instead, chew his ear off about your shoes or whatever. Stop being dramatic and excusing all of it, you felt it coming and you encouraged it. Very different and you can't really get away with blaming that on emotional immaturity.

WAAHH!!!...

Episode of a TV soap..???

Think I would rather watch The Antiques Roadshow" or "Songs of Praise" on a loop than watch ANY episode of this soap....YAWN, YAWN....BOOOOOORED NOW!!!

C'mon guys, can you not see, the OP is clearly loving the attention and taking the piss out of each and everyone of you... Switch off now and join in a thread from someone who genuinely deserves your opinIons, and time, on a subject that actually matters!!

Self obsession is NOT an attractive quality!!

(Note that this post is NOT directed at the OP and merely everyone else who is giving their time ....and what a waste!!)

LOL!!!!

"Shocked this thread is still going"

It wasn't until you bumped it.

I think the previous poster who likened this to the poster of Chester zoo etc is right!

I've enjoyed the read, come back OP

ewen1234 did you not realise everybody had given up and the majority of us we're not playing along?

Okay. I'm back from some Italian catacombs or something. Now, someone hold down this thread on the altar, and I'll start start unwrapping this bit of sackcloth with 7 scared daggers (?) in it.

We'll kill this thread once and for all.

Now look what you did vipers, you made OP have an affair with all your ‘he’s not creepy’..

Shaaaaame on you vipers

It's funny how this ended up in a full blown affair... And divorce!

Just like your current situation eh? Funny old world.

Lady

How is it in appropriate ? He has done nothing wrong at all

Sorry op but he does not fancy you and your reading way way way too much into his comments ! He sounds like a nice guy but he is most certainly not doing anything inappropriate towards you .

@Farmerswife36 I guess it was inappropriate as three months later, we've been having an affair, I divorced and he separated form his wife.

Why did you come back to update this 3 months on? It reads like bragging.