On the question of would I care if my daughter gave it up to bring up kids and live off her husbands salary. For me I worked my arse off, to give her those choices, career or stay at home mum, but a part of me yes would be concerned if she had given up everything she is currently striving so hard for and was reliant heavily on the success of her marriage.
Why? Because divorce is a real thing. I see so many women on here who are taking abuse after abuse, because they can’t afford to leave. They Post that they used to have it all, they were happy, confident, financially stable with a good job, and now the husband treats them like shite, but they have no money, no where to go, so they just keep on, washing his pants and making his dinner and taking it. They never dreamt it would be them, but it’s always someone, isn’t it?
And as for sahm mums retaliating, yes there is an element of this, that’s true, but do remember the whole thread started because women were posting their husbands salaries in response to how much do “you” earn. Something you never see a man do. And to repeat. One poster even posted her ex husbands salary in response to the question. If you don’t earn, you could bypass the thread, not post your husbands, or even worse, your ex husbands salary in response to the question.