I can’t believe this is still rumbling on, and some of the shite being posted.
Because I want to raise my own child
Said in response to a question on childcare before school age. Really? This poster feels a child stops being raised by the time they are four and go to school? And what then the teachers raise them?
I worked, my daughter is now twenty, she has no doubt who her mother is and would laugh in your face, before walking off shaking her head in sheer revulsion, if you suggested she was raised by a nursery worker and not me.
But you wouldn’t say it to her face would you? Because you know it’s bullshit and parents who work also raise their children. You wouldn’t say it to anyone whose parents worked. Tell them their parents didn’t raise them. But you’ll spew it on line.
Why are people being so offensive. It’s not offensive to say your husbands career achievements are not yours, yours is raising happy well adjusted kids and managing the home. Why attack? Why demand his achievements are also yours, demand you didn’t just run the home, manage the childcare, you also are responsible for his success and his salary?
Who is invalidating sahms to the extent they are on line attacking women who work, claiming they didn’t raise their own children, and claiming their husbands success and salary as theirs?
Because it reads to me, it’s sahms, who are doing it to themselves.