I have experienced unwanted male attention a lot. Sadly, far too young as I suffered SA, as a child (where virtually ALL perpetrators are men). But also as a young adult, one awful incident on an aeroplane where the man next to me kept touching me up.
It’s much less now that I’m a mum, thankfully, and older, I’m invisible mostly, which is great. But I still get unwanted friend requests on Facebook, and attempts to chat me up. My settings are mostly on friends of friends only for friend requests for that reason.
It’s hard to speak negatively about men, because the man I’m married to is lovely, and so are my DBILs. My DFIL too, he died in a car accident back in 2003 sadly. But my DSis’s ex abused her, and my F and B abused us as children. So the fact is that half the men close to us were abusers.
I also help with a charity supporting and training Central Asian women, and there every single woman suffers DV in the home. Some women do go on to become abusive MILs, but it’s a case of victim becoming perpetrator. It’s also all about becoming a mother to a boy.
So I’m afraid, reluctantly, I have to agree with the OP on this, though I would never argue with another woman’s experience. But I wonder if maybe certain things don’t bother you? Like a man in a club asking, ‘Do you want a shag?’ To me, it’s being treated like a piece of meat. But maybe other women can close their minds to it?