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To be fed up of sexual fetishists on here?

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brasty · 14/10/2017 12:56

So many threads at the moment that are obviously posters looking for wank fodder. Including disgustingly a fair number to do with children. So fed up of these. And so fed up of so many staying up for several days even though they are reported.

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brasty · 14/10/2017 14:37

Thanks and I hope I don't get banned for it.

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RoseWhiteTips · 14/10/2017 14:37

Who knew? I didn’t, but then I tend to avoid that type of thread anyway and would never share intimate information of any kind.

Sickening to think such creepy weirdos exist, though.

user789653241 · 14/10/2017 14:38

Thing is, it's not so clear to someone like me. I can get easily sucked into a thread thinking it's genuine. It didn't even cross my mind it could be something dodgy about the thread going on now, until I came across this one by op. I got sucked into toilet thread and it was very hurt. Sad that people can take advantage of such a great helpful site like this.

KatieScarlett · 14/10/2017 14:39

I think it's one of those "once you see it, you can't unsee it" types of thing. Which is why this thread needs to stay up.

Mummyoflittledragon · 14/10/2017 14:39

YADNBU brasty. Some of the threads/posts make me shudder. I avoid them as much as possible.

stopfuckingshoutingatme · 14/10/2017 14:41

Where are these Confused threads

C8H10N4O2 · 14/10/2017 14:42

I've seen a couple of 'period' threads here from posters who did not realise they had a treatable problem (menorrhagia) or who had been fobbed off by poor GPs who dismiss it as 'womens problems'.

It would be a shame if they could no longer ask such questions anonymously here to be reassured that they can get help and are justified in seeking it.

TBH I've not seen the potty training stuff but I've probably forgotten how I did it!

CoteDAzur · 14/10/2017 14:43

“Where are these Confused threads”

Deleted. Check out the link in my previous post if you want to know what they were about.

CoteDAzur · 14/10/2017 14:46

“It would be a shame if they could no longer ask such questions anonymously here to be reassured that they can get help and are justified in seeking it.“

Certainly.

I think there is a noticeable difference in tone between a post that asks “I have this problem. What do I do?” and one that goes “I peed all over myself by accident. Share your peeing stories to make me feel better”, for example.

Papafran · 14/10/2017 14:46

Oh no, was that the one about the 15 month old whose nursery staff said his behaviour was inappropriate? Was that a troll? Some people are so weird.

I also saw a period one last week I think which went into loads of detail about leaking. It was about a teenage girl and I wasn't sure if that was true either because it seemed quite extreme. I could be wrong though.

It's v hard with name changing to see if someone is a regular or a new poster as well.

There was a 'diary of sexual assault' one today- not sure if it has now been taken down. But loads of people sharing in good faith.

stopfuckingshoutingatme · 14/10/2017 14:46

Thanks cote
God I'm a nosy bugger

Sara107 · 14/10/2017 14:52

I'm finding this thread really disturbing, I had no idea about all this trolling type stuff. I'm especially disturbed to hear that pant wetting threads are a thing for these sort of people. Not so much MN, but I have used another forum quite a bit for toileting issues and it never occurred to me that some of the posters might not be genuine - particularly as there was a section for children to post about their own problems.

Elendon · 14/10/2017 14:53

Yes to the dairy of the sexual assault. Papafran It was prurient and exposing. I can understand the sentiment behind the original post but as one poster pointed out, rightly in my opinion, it could be picked up by the tabloids. And also fodder for those who get off on this.

Elendon · 14/10/2017 14:55

there was a section for children to post about their own problems.

That is incredibly disturbing.

Saucery · 14/10/2017 14:56

It's probably better moderated than this one Sara107 if there is a section for children to discuss it too. There's a distinct tone to the posts about these subjects. Less what do I do about it? and more tell me how it feels when you do it

roundaboutthetown · 14/10/2017 14:57

Why on earth are people sharing intimate information on an internet forum at all if they are worried about perverts? You have to be stupidly naive to think it makes any difference whether the thread was started by a pervert or not - a pervert will still be reading what you say and wanking over it, whether the thread you are commenting on was started by a real person or another pervert like themselves. Just don't share information you wouldn't want a deviant to get sexual pleasure out of, because you are posting to the entire world regardless.

DJBaggySmalls · 14/10/2017 14:58

Can I just point out to all the perverts that Yahoo Answers has hardly any moderators and will tolerate this kind of wank fodder?
Do feel free to ruin that forum instead of this one.

Flomper · 14/10/2017 14:59

totally agree with you. Cant believe people fall for it and then blithely tell their graphic birth/poo/ sex stories ehich is what the saddos want. Its the people not realising that they get off on I think. That said, what kind of sad inadequate are yoi to have to do that to get your kicks? I feel sorry for them really

Papafran · 14/10/2017 14:59

I think there is a noticeable difference in tone between a post that asks “I have this problem. What do I do?” and one that goes “I peed all over myself by accident. Share your peeing stories to make me feel better”, for example

Exactly, if I did that, I might ask for opinions on whether I should see the doctor if it was something that happened unexpectedly. I would definitely not want/need a load of stories about women weeing themselves to 'feel better'.

C8H10N4O2 · 14/10/2017 15:01

I think there is a noticeable difference in tone between a post that asks “I have this problem. What do I do?” and one that goes “I peed all over myself by accident. Share your peeing stories to make me feel better”, for example

Um yes - I'd have to agree with that. I've not seen much of this, plainly I don't spend enough time here to catch them before they are deleted!

Calmanrose · 14/10/2017 15:04

I got absolutely slaughtered for suggesting that people were providing wank material for perverts on a thread about clean or dirty pants under pjs recently .... sadly many on here are far too trusting....or far too thick...to realise that not everyone is who they say.

Calmanrose · 14/10/2017 15:05

Oh that was under kids pjs where far too many were oversharing

bruffin · 14/10/2017 15:07

There is poster called Toastee, that has a fetish about nappy pins and kilts (pin thing again) for school uniform. Their posts were on all the parenting forums i have been on.

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brasty · 14/10/2017 15:08

I would have taken a post about pins in good faith.

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Mummyoflittledragon · 14/10/2017 15:12

I assumed the period one was genuine. As in the 13 yo girl, whose mum wanted to put on the pill. I did comment but did not give personal details. Has it been deleted or something?

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