... A bit upset to be referred to, by a 3rd party, as 'huge'?

[IamtheDevilsAvocado]

Just this....

Someone referred to me as this... You'll recognise her.. She's the huge girl...

Apart from rudeness... At what size does someone become 'huge'.. I appreciate it's all relative etc etx...

PS I'm an (in proportion) size 18-20 and 5 foot 8. So to me tallish and curvy...

10-12 normal
14 - curvy
16 - larger girl
18+ obese
IMO

No point dressing it up.

And......?

And nothing, just how I see it. Huge is hurtful but no point saying size 18-20 isn't very large, it is. Not that it needs to be said at all.

Exactly Blonde it doesn’t need to be said but why deny and try and class yourself as curvy when you clearly aren’t?

But the reality is this is not how the people in the world think it’s a shame of course it is but it’s something that can be changed !
If your unhappy make a change ??
IMO being that over weight is a lifestyle choice!

If you was not morbidly obese then you wouldn’t be seen as the huge one right ? I’m known as the blonde one or the English one lol! It’s how the world sees you and if you want the world to see you differently to how you want to be seen then change it if not .... don’t ?

Pyjamas not only are your posts barely readable due to spelling errors and grammatical liberties, you also sound terribly judgemental.

Lol!

IMO being that over weight is a lifestyle choice!

Is being anorexic a lifestyle choice according to you too?

Oh give it a rest I’m sick of hearing over weight people complaining

Yanbu. And I don't understand why so many people are commenting on how you describe yourself when you were asking about the word 'huge.' Unnecessary.

My spelling lol it’s a bloody forum not a report
I’m at home not at work lol

Oh give it a rest I’m sick of hearing over weight people complaining

I'm not overweight.

With all the lolling I doubt you are old enough for paid employment.

@Pyjamasplease why the feck SHOULDN'T overweight people complain about people saying nasty things and insulting them?!

You sound like a judgemental arrogant oik!

Pyjamas No...you just carry on! Everyone with a brain is discounting all you say because you're illiterate. You're just adding shit to the shit each time you post!

OK maybe op is obese. But no way is she morbidly obese pyjamas Even so she does not deserve to be referred to as huge.
Certainly there is nothing on this thread to lol about.
In my teenage years I watched my sister nearly starve herself to death. I saw the impact this had on my mum. And all of this was largely because some tosser at work told her she was fat.
She is now according to the helpful chart a normal weight but o my the damage has been done to her body.
Strangely her cholesterol is worse than mine largely due to her awful diet despite me being obese and working on it.

How is being 5’ 8’ a lifestyle choice?
If the op was 5’ 4’ would she still have been described as huge?

YABU

IRL there is no MNHQ to filter out the rude or unkind words and the only person you can change is yourself.

Lose weight or develop a more resilient attitude.

I would rather be seen as the "kind/funny/caring/helpful" one than judged by how "huge" I am or how tall I happened to grow

IRL there is no MNHQ to filter out the rude or unkind words and the only person you can change is yourself.

Lose weight or develop a more resilient attitude.

I can't change mine. I am resilient. It doesn't stop it hurting.

I shouldn't have to be even 'more resilient' just because some idiot thinks it's ok to be abusive.

So because I can’t be bothered to spell or use punctuation I’m illiterate? You do know what illiterate means? Oh lord give me stength!
You seem to understand my post pretty well for me being illiterate. I have an opinion.
Iv been a bigger girl much much bigger and instead of get upset with every comment,or post about my weight or distress I don’t something about it. If your happy being fat then so what good for you. If your not you can change. I have a big friend she’s knows she’s obese she Moans about it a lot! So I tell her to make lifestyle changes.
Eat healthier
Exercise more
Get support
But instead she continues to indulge. That does not gain my sympathy. I’m off this thread now so carry on ripping into each other have fun ladies. Typical female thread! Yuk

But if you
Eat healthier
Exercise more
It doesn't fall off overnight. So in the meantime try to be kind?
I eat well, and probably a lot less than most people and exercise but am still a size 14/16. I'm definitely not huge but I am 5ft 10 so I'm tall (but not much I can do about that)

Shit just realised my typo errors knock yourself out girls

No it takes commitment like most things in life there is always an exscuse!
Trust me I made millions of exscuses before I took the step. Good luck

What I'm saying is someone may have lost weight already. But calling them huge in the meantime doesn't help