Littlebird we'll have to agree to differ and reconvene many years post 2019 and see what happens in reality.
Your statement that "We have got our confidence back as a country" seems rather at odds to your previous descriptions of the UK as a country creaking under inadequate health care, housing and work opportunities.
You are accusing me of having a backward view of the UK, but you seem to be harping back to when England was a colonial power in terms of trade!
London may be a financial hub (at the moment) but your point about "You come to London to cut your teeth in any major industry" and about Germany being the only good places to gain business experience in the EU is absolute nonsense. There are opportunities in a myriad of countries (both popular and less popular) in the EU both for training, education and business.
Just off the top of my head eg:
- fashion, food, tourism - Italy,
- tourism and agriculture - Spain,
- wind power in Denmark and Sweden,
- pharmaceuticals in France and Belgium,
- high value cosmetics and aerospace technology - France, Italy Spain, - transportation and logistics - most continental EU states.
And by the way, lots and lots of UK farmers have investigated in Romanian and Spanish agriculture. A lot of the food grown in Spain that is available to us in British supermarkets, is grown on Spanish farms owned by British farmers.
My point is simply that I would prefer future generations in the UK to be able to take advantage of these opportunities too. It will still be possible for them to do so to a limited extent, but it will be a lot more difficult and costly than it is now.
You seem to be intent on attributing opinions to me that I haven't even mentioned (gap years for example). Fwiw, most EU citizens struggle by the age of 30 to afford a home in the country of their birth - this is not unique to UK. The UK housing market is entirely different to that of the rest of continental Europe, because not as many people rent and it is far more volatile market altogether. House prices only tend to rise slowly and incrementally over here, but we avoid the damaging booms and busts.
From the point of view of the EU countries, it is the UK who has behaved less than honorably. We have obtained opt-outs and refunds and special exceptions galore and yet we still turned our backs on our EU partners. This current Brexit mess is entirely of our own creation and yet we expect the other 27 EU member states to think "creatively" and bail us out of it!