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To ask how you cope with the idea that you may never have sex again

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terriblemistake · 09/10/2017 20:19

Am getting divorced. I can't imagine sleeping with anyone else and in my late 40s now, another relationship might not happen in any case?

Honestly, it is the least of my worries at the moment and I think I will mind a lot less than I thought I would. It's still a strange idea to wrap your head around though - never again Shock

Also, the person I want to sleep with is H (if things were not so dire between us), can't imagine another person's body.

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tehmina23 · 12/10/2017 13:57

No one ever 'hits on' me (to use a phrase from another thread!!)

They used to when I was thinner & didn't have MH issues.

I'm 41 and would like a hug from s nice man let alone sex.

I need to start OLD but it's so difficult like having teeth pulled, I hate it!

I used to meet men in bars when I was drunk it was so easy but I can't drink now. I also used to meet men at work.

I work in a hospital (lots of men) and go to the gym (men) and go out socially to bars & restaurants.
I'm size 12 so slim ish, blonde long hair and look young fir my age.

But nothing.

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bridgetoc · 12/10/2017 14:56

Some people would not mind, and some would. The OP will soon find out which of these she is, and if it's the latter, I'm sure she will be able to find a partner if she really wants it.

I personally could not go till the end of this week without sex. It would put me in a right mood. The rest of my life? No chance......

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KarateKitten · 12/10/2017 14:58

If you want sex again, you can and will have it. In fact I suspect you will be able to have more sex than you've had in the last many years, if that's what you want.

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ShatnersWig · 12/10/2017 23:34

Karate Do you have a crystal ball?

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HelenaDove · 13/10/2017 01:17

Not normally a Bond viewer but flicking through the channels ive found a Bond film Could so do Timothy Dalton right now.

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KarateKitten · 13/10/2017 07:51

Shatners, sure do.

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ShatnersWig · 13/10/2017 08:00

Karate Great. Perhaps you can give us the time, place and date so those of us who have been single and haven't had sex for 6+ years know precisely where and when to make sure we don't miss it. Thanks.

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