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AIBU?

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To think this is not an edible meal

159 replies

Lockheart · 10/09/2017 21:28

I'm studying for some critical exams. My bf very kindly offered to cook for me - pasta with pesto, lovely. Have barely eaten all day as I've been in the library, so was ravenous.

Into this 'pasta with pesto' went 2 day old peas and chips, half a pot of tahini, some raw peanuts, an unripe avocado, and finally some actual pesto.

When I saw him about to tip the chips in (I was studying at the kitchen table but by this point was watching with horror) I said "Oh no, please don't put those in" and he got quite huffy about it, because he was making me dinner and I was sitting there and criticising (I'd also pointed out that the avocado was not ripe).

The peas would have been fine had they not been hard, the chips were burnt, I don't like tahini, and whilst I can understand peanuts in a noodle dish, I would not serve them up with pesto (just my preference).

He also served it with a side salad - just not cricket Wink

I accept he was making me dinner and it was a lovely thing to do, but AIBU to think this is not good cooking? Pasta with just pesto is so simple and would have been more than fine.

This is a man who, upon being told I'd like to cook Mexican one evening (id been dreaming about fajitas all day), took the whole thing over; he insisted on buying veal mine (it was more than the beef mince, but it was reduced!), then put mushrooms, cashew nuts, and sultanas in with the meat. And then, to add insult to injury, tipped my pan of refried beans into the whole thing. I could do nothing but watch as my lovely and much dreamed of Mexican literally went down the pan Sad

I love the bloke and I appreciate that he cooks for me, but how can I get him to stop cooking like a student and actually cook me something edible? He's 33, for reference...

OP posts:
Motoko · 11/09/2017 13:46

Make him watch a few Kay's Good Cooking videos on YouTube. They'll be best mates in no time

Oh god yeah! Those videos are.....something else!

Spudlet · 11/09/2017 13:50

You really need to explain to him that George's Marvellous Medicine is not a cookbook Shock

NewMinouMinou · 11/09/2017 18:43

I actually do add petits pois to pasta and pesto, topped off with crunchy back bacon - it's one of my kiddie crowd pleasers and I don't mind it either.
Having said that...OP - boak!!

donquixotedelamancha · 11/09/2017 19:07

At the last male training session, we covered volunteering to cook so it doesn't look like we are being shit on purpose (we are). He's obviously trying to put some of the techniques into practice.

Thing is, he will have been warned about overplaying his hand. No one would really eat that- he hasn't read the manual properly. Text any of his male friends and he'll get a bit more training. Next time it will be just shy of edible and the kitchen will be a bomb site.

SandDunesAndSaltyAir · 11/09/2017 21:35

I'm intrigued about the half a pot of tahini. In my experience tahini is quite a 'foodie' ingredient. What did he use the other half for? Does he make his own houmous? Seems unlikely, based on this offering. Does he use as a dip? Spread on bread? I need to know!

Moanyoldcow · 11/09/2017 21:45

I'm not kidding, this nonsense would end my relationship. He's not being 'nice' and 'thoughtful' - he's a deluded child with no tastebuds.

I detest the fallacy that because someone does you a 'favour' you're obliged to play along and be grateful no matter the outcome.

ArcheryAnnie · 11/09/2017 22:07

shakingmyhead that's like really terrible nursery food, or something a student would invent. But still more edible that what the OP's bf made!

That tahini would have made it all go really claggy. Urgh.

BertrandRussell · 11/09/2017 22:55

"he was "man" cooking,"

Bollocks

Moanyoldcow · 11/09/2017 23:19

I agree Bertrand - my husband cooks almost all of our meals - yesterday it was sea bass in butter sauce and last week duck breasts with dauphinoise potatoes.

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