To think this mum is a cheeky fucker

[LolaTheDarkdestroyer]

My dd (8) stayed at a friends last night. I nipped round there in the day to drop some clothes off as she needed shorts, while I was there my dd asked if 'they' meaning the girl and her two sisters could stop at ours tommorrow (meaning today) I said oh I'm not sure yet it's school Tuesday and we have a lot to get sorted,plus dad is working tommorrow and left it at that.

Today comes I don't hear anything off the mum all day. I went out to walk the dog came home and she had left all 3 girls 6,7 and 9 at my house with all their stuff! Dp was busy in the garden and told the mum I would be home any minute and to wait as he didn't know what was going on, she said oh I'll leave them here with you and fucked off.

I got back to 3 bags of overnight stuff on the hallway and 3 girls that were here for a bloody sleepover wtaf not once had I said they were stopping or confirmed anything with the mum, I got a Facebook message an hour later saying she would pick them up at 2 tommorrow!

Now I wouldn't have minded if it had been one of the girls fair enough I would have said fine, but why the fuck would you drop all your kids off to my house leave them with my dp who you don't know for shit and not even check with me?

I have 7 kids myself including a 2 year old and a 5 month old so now have 10 kids in my house, where is the common sense?
Surely when my dd asked if they could sleep the mum should have said well not all of you as it's a bit much.especially a 6 year old who darent even go to the loo on her own. None of these kids have ever been to my house before either.

They all went to the park earlier and I answered a phonecall off the mum to one of the girls I said I'll get her to ca you back, she said "oh it's alright I'm going out" so basically I'm babysitting 3 kids for her while she fucks off out on the piss.

Yes I should have told her to come pick them up as I had t agreed to a sleepover but I felt bad for them...the mum shouldn't have left them here in the first place though aibu to think she is a cheeky fucking bitch?

"Oh I am not sure yet "
Is not clear enough for this lady
Next time say
"No sorry it is not possible " emphasise NO and NOT

They'll all share, they're only wee things.

Tell them if they want to come for another sleep over they'd better be asleep by midnight & tell DD it'll be a very long time before she has another sleep over if she's not asleep by midnight.

If they're not asleep by then go and sit in the bedroom until they go to sleep.

Your DP is an idiot!! He already has 7 kids to look after and he let a complete stranger drop another 3 off?? How on earth is he coping?

What are you doing this weekend?

They're still awake? Go up, tell them to be quiet and stand there for however long it takes to stop them talking or messing about again. You can MN while you're there. Otherwise they'll be hellish in the morning.

They have 2 beds and quilts/cushions/pillows/covers between 5 girls last time I went up they had made a den I'm sure they will be fine.

Your DP is an idiot!! He already has 7 kids to look after and he let a complete stranger drop another 3 off?? How on earth is he coping?

Yes because the OP hasn't been an idiot at all.

You just said ok when she said she'd get them at 2?

I'm not the most confident person in the world but even i would have said no that's too late, I'll send them back at 9 for example.

That's not even touching on the fact you have let them stay the night.

Tbf you never actually said no. So you can't really complain.

Did your daughter tell the mum you'd said yes?

Dp isn't an idiot he just assumed I knew what was happening I suppose plus he had the two babies and was trying to mow lawn when she showed up.
I've already gave them a bollocking seems to have quietened down a bit up there.

Seriously, you need to get off the internet and sort out where they're going to sleep, then tell them to get into bed.

You and your DP need to do this.

You can sit here all night bumping your gums about how irresponsible the other mother is (and she bloody well is), but right now, you're not coming across as particularly responsible either if you've ten kids in your house, and 8 of them are fucking about at this time of night.

I didn't really think when I replied ok there was a lot going on! And I've already admitted I'm a grade a pussy and should speak up that's a problem a have in situations like this though to soft.

Someone really needs to close the gates at Cheeky Fucker Land before anyone else escapes

If all the cheeky fucker threads stopped MN would be a ghost town.

I've genuinely never met a cheeky fucker: no cars that don't belong to me have ever parked on my drive, no children that are not mine have ever been dumped on me unceremoniously. Why is that?

You replied ok to her collecting them at 2? Are you mad? Do you realize what you've done? Every weekend you have her kids until sometime the next day. She won't ask, she will drive by kick the kids out of the car and speed off.
You need to say no. It needs to be 9. Woman up and stop being such a people pleaser.

Too soft.

You really need to name change op, your username and personality do not match at all 😂

My username isn't me...it's my cats nick name...

Wow some people really do have more front than fucking Blackpool don't they!!!

So I suppose it does match my personality..a fucking pussy.

Ok @LolaTheDarkdestroyer so you're too soft, you know you've been taken advantage of and you've got no intention of confronting CFM to sort out a better arrangement. So what was the point of the post???? You don't seem stressed out about it and frankly the kids all seem to be having a ball.....I'm confused as to the problem!

Fuck a moose!

Please tell us you're going to drop them off at 9am...

I just wanted conformation that she is taking the royal piss I suppose.

"Hi Cheeky Fucker, I'll keep the kids tonight as they don't deserve the upset dropping them home will cause but if you ever pull a stunt like this again I will be bringing them straight home again.
Enjoy your night because I'll be at your door at 9am to return your children."

This.
What ClemDanfango said.

Wirh your 7 in tow? You know what kids are like- they'll run straight up to her kids' bedrooms and make a racket! 😁😁

What time shall I drop my two round tomorrow OP? I could use a lie-in on Bank Holiday Monday...