To never have tried / owned a vibrator

[Mumof41987]

What am I missing ?? Never felt the need for one but best friend says I don't know what I'm missing ? Am I weird for never having a vibrator ??

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If you've found this page in search of vibrators that have been tried and tested by fellow Mumsnet users, you might find our guide to the best vibrators useful. Hope this helps! MNHQ 💐

LoveHoney send in plain, discreet packaging. Try a bullet vibrator to begin with as they are cheap and cheerful and work up from there.

The price of the womaniser!

Aye but extra long orgasms when you get the hang of using it. I can't get ones that go on for almost 10 seconds just using fingers or any man.

Apparently the wand is up there with the best as well, haven't tried that one yet. Still awestruck with the womanizer

Excellent review of the Womaniser here:

www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a51184/womanizer-fiera-oral-sex-vibrator-reviews/

Wish I could afford to fork out 150 notes or however much it costs!

This should be available on the NHS:

www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28657

If you go in to your local Ann summers with a budget and a rough idea of what sort of thing you'd like to try, the staff will be able to help you.
Bigger isn't always better, most of the newer, more pricey rabbits for example are slimmer that the older versions, but the vibrations are better and the tend to have a little bend to target the g spot so they don't have to be big, the older ones were bigger to provide more stimulation as the vibes weren't as strong.
If you do want something big and girthy for the full feeling Mr Tom and Mr Harry are dildos, none vibrating, about 7in long and quite girthy. There's also a version called Mr Tom that vibrates, it has a wire to a battery pack. It's the same size roughly as the other two but looks bigger as its in a huge box.
And I promise it's all incredibly normal to us

gamer, you should try edging! Extra long every time

Vibrators can vibrate... I am pretty sure no penis is able to do that

Oh, they can. Pop a vibrating butt plug up his arse and make sure it's angled to sit on his prostate.

I mainly use vibrators (I have several) for clit stimulation alone or during sex.

I don't really use vibrators as penis-substitutes/dildos.

Magic wand
Or if you wanted to discover g spot squirting ability https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35523&ReviewPage=2#customer_reviews

I always have to wash my sheets after using my doxy wand ;-)
I defy anyone to not orgasm with 30 seconds of using it.

Seconding trying a bullet first. Not the Durex ones though, you'd get a much better one from lovehoney for only a few £ more.

I'm single and my wrists are getting a bit arthritic so have been wondering about getting one(or more),what are your recommendations?

www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28673

I have this and it's honestly one of the best things I've ever bought (though it cost me £79 in 2015). It's worth investing in something decent, imo.

Stupid question but gunna ask anyways ! Who the heck tests vibrators and how do they know how to make them? Is there a special factory where people test different sizes , widths , vibrations? Honest this is a serious question

Thanks ginandsonic

Until last year I didn't own a vib, I decided to give it a go because I was curious....I haven't looked back. It's really good, it's a time just for me when I'm guaranteed an orgasm every time. It doesn't stop me having a good sex life with dh.

YANBU, I do fine without one atm but I do agree with everyone who has agreed you should at least try one! I come quite quietly and I took the roof off the first time I used a rabbit.

Until my last one died I used it when I fancied a break from my own fingers or if partners weren't quite hitting the spot. I've never had anyone be threatened by one; men usually like being left in control of using them.

Use the various criteria on lovehoney to treat yourself to a dream machine, there's something for whatever works for you, if I wasn't so cash strapped I'd rebuy my little lelo bunny (no dildo part attached) in an instant. It's not v expensive but I can't justify it atm!

I'm puzzled why you wouldn't want a vib cos you prefer a penis.

I prefer pasta but I still like chips, and pizza and potatoes.......

I love mine. I prefer sex with my husband, it's totally different but I actually really really love mine

I'd have sex every night if I could though and hubs ain't up for that!

I second, third, fourth (and sometimes even fifth) the PPs recommending the Womaniser

Nothing but nothing, real or otherwise, comes close. Seriously. Dont tell your DPs tho, they might get a complex!

Will the Daily Mail lift this thread I wonder???

We have loads of toys but like you done don't have any, it's personal choice but I have found the wobbly ones much better than the rigid ones, more dildo less vibrator x

I've never felt I was missing out before. But DH bought me this for our anniversary, I've just had a go and blimey. I was missing out. I don't think it will "replace" dh, we are intending to use it together sometimes.

Meh. I'd rather have oral. A vibrator doesn't change it's thing, I like some teasing.

The wand changed my life, I had never orgasmed like I do with that.

It is quite loud though!

I had one, but I don't like the vibrations because it's too intense and feels unnatural. I much prefer fingers and a bit of erotic literature. But if it feels good to other people, power to them!