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Shagzilla has now changed her name to Spamzilla!

170 replies

AllRoadsLeadBackToRadley · 18/07/2017 02:22

Okaaaaay...I didn't think I'd have to start a new thread- but...

She's now saying that she and DH slept together a month ago- June 8th, to be exact!

I suppose this is an update thread, really. I am once agsin pissing myself at her antics.

I'm NOT laughing at infidelity- I've have a little bit of experience of this (first gf cheated on me, etc). I'm laughing because it's absolute bs! Not only do I have 100% trust in DH, but she plucked out of thin air the date that he took off work last month, to mainline the new season of OITNB!

But OMG, the details- she could write Mills and Boon!

(In case anyone is wondering, I forgot to block her from the email I use for work).

Sorry if this makes no sense.

Ignore, or witty comeback?

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DontstepontheMomeRaths · 18/07/2017 18:55

She's batshit. So you ruin her relationship by not looking after her kids so she can have a shag and now apparently she slept with your H.
Don't reply. She's trying to suck you back into her drama.

Questioningeverything · 18/07/2017 19:00

Hope you're ok today op

whydotheygetawaywithit · 18/07/2017 20:46

PollytheDolly
Please don't use the word fucktard. It is short for fucking retard and is a really nasty word my (disabled) child is often called.

AllRoadsLeadBackToRadley · 19/07/2017 00:03

Evening! Sorry- I spent the day dozing (exhausted) and only woke up just in time for the police!

Apparantly, telling me that she's shagged my DH is not really threatening behavior- nor is the other shite she decided to spam my inbox with (went straight to spam), mostly about animal torture (vegan). I have to log everything, incidents etc.

I CANNOT say a bad word about the police tonight, as the guy who came to see me today (off topic, sorry) has worked his ass off over the last few weeks, and managed to find archived fottage of me making a statement in 1994! ReSULT! Well, maybe not yet- but a damn sight further on than we were! Although I'm pissed that HNF is not even going to get a warning at this time, it would seem sort of wrong to diss the police on here after that IYSWIM?

Everything is deathly quiet! MF has had no emails either!

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kali110 · 19/07/2017 00:11

If she sends anymore i say you've spoken to
The police and if she doesnt stop you'll make a formal complaint ( she doesn't need to know).

Donttouchthethings · 19/07/2017 09:53

I thought online bullying was a crime these days?? (Also, I don't know what MF means.) Well done for mentioning it to the police though and glad they've been good to you.

justilou · 19/07/2017 09:57

I know this is your real life, Radley, but you just sound so awesome and this woman sounds so insane that I kind of want more. Hopefully she won't give up yet!

Donttouchthethings · 19/07/2017 09:57

Jta, what sort of person emails someone about animal torture??! She really is just awful.

I'm curious, why were you friends with her? Did she show any of this craziness when she was friends with you?

Nikephorus · 19/07/2017 13:59

Apparantly, telling me that she's shagged my DH is not really threatening behavior
But that doesn't mean that you can't tell Ms Batshit that you've "spoken to the police" about her behaviour..... You just don't tell her what they said. Might be the wake-up call she needs?

MsSusanStoHelit · 19/07/2017 14:11

Bloody hell this woman is not playing with a full set of clubs, is she?! I'm starting to feel a bit sorry for her cause she's clearly unwell.

However that's no reason for her to take it out on you with this harrassing behaviour - glad you spoke to the police and got a plan to log it all.

CouldntMakeThisShitUp · 19/07/2017 14:34

managed to find archived fottage of me making a statement in 1994! ReSULT!

what?!! You reported the same woman in 1994 for her batshit crazy ways?

She sounds like she has some serious MH issues going on....just watch out for it escalating when she gets no response from you or even the satisfaction of knowing you've read her emails.

If you start getting takeout deliveries you never ordered, memberships to porn clubs etc then you know who's behind it....

Leeds2 · 19/07/2017 14:59

What happened in 1994?

Willow2017 · 19/07/2017 16:46

I dont think the police were there initially for Shagzilla! Think its an ongoing issue.

Brenna24 · 19/07/2017 16:52

Glad the police are really trying to help you. It makes all the difference when someone cares enough to. I hope Spamzilla gives up and goes away now. Hopefully that was just an extinction burst in the hope of getting her own way.

HunkyDory69 · 19/07/2017 18:04

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Questioningeverything · 19/07/2017 20:55

The footage relates to another thread.

Groovee · 19/07/2017 21:15

She's the gift that keeps on giving Confused

I'd have been tempted to get her to mark his technique out of 5 and could she explain his weird way with something... she'd make up some story that would keep you amused.

But it wouldn't surprise me if she claims he's the father of baby number 6!

BunnyBardot · 19/07/2017 21:38

She's disgusting. I feel so sorry for the children. She is an unfit mother.

PreemptiveSalvageEngineer · 20/07/2017 10:50

Is there another thread about the 1994 stuff... >confused

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 20/07/2017 18:40

I am trying to think of words to express my response to this latest batshittery - and all I can domis sit here shaking my head in disbelief!

Radley - you are dealing with this so well, and with grace and humour.

ImperfectPirouette - I love you for "Christ on a bike. Doing wheelies" - and I think you sound amazing!

KeiraKnightleyActsWithHerTeeth · 20/07/2017 19:16

Wait, what happened in 1994?

ginnystonic · 20/07/2017 19:32

I've searched both threads but can't figure out what happened in 1994???

ClopySow · 20/07/2017 20:55

1994 is completely unrelated to shagzilla.

NaiceBiscuits · 20/07/2017 21:05

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Jingleboom · 20/07/2017 21:17

This all sounds vile

You are repeated slagging someone off on a public forum, deliberately targeting one person. I don't care what she's done, what you are doing is worse - fucking horrible

The very definition of bullying.

Shame on you all

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