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Shagzilla has now changed her name to Spamzilla!

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AllRoadsLeadBackToRadley · 18/07/2017 02:22

Okaaaaay...I didn't think I'd have to start a new thread- but...

She's now saying that she and DH slept together a month ago- June 8th, to be exact!

I suppose this is an update thread, really. I am once agsin pissing myself at her antics.

I'm NOT laughing at infidelity- I've have a little bit of experience of this (first gf cheated on me, etc). I'm laughing because it's absolute bs! Not only do I have 100% trust in DH, but she plucked out of thin air the date that he took off work last month, to mainline the new season of OITNB!

But OMG, the details- she could write Mills and Boon!

(In case anyone is wondering, I forgot to block her from the email I use for work).

Sorry if this makes no sense.

Ignore, or witty comeback?

OP posts:
mumthatruns · 18/07/2017 09:23

Orange Is The New Black

Amazing show

SouthWindsWesterly · 18/07/2017 09:24

Orange is the new black

SchadenfreudePersonified · 18/07/2017 09:25

Oh! Of course!

Thank you both.

MintToBee · 18/07/2017 09:27

Bloody hell, She's truly the gift that keeps on giving.

WankYouForTheMusic · 18/07/2017 09:32

Can we have a link to your previous thread? Because this all sounds absolutely fucking marvellous and I seem to have missed it.

Neverstopsmiling · 18/07/2017 09:35

There's a link on the first page a few replies down ShoesHaveSouls posted it

I was a lurked on your other thread..She is the gift that keeps on giving isn't she!
I can't believe she's still going and now made up this!

WankYouForTheMusic · 18/07/2017 09:38

Ta. I initially only saw the bed wetting link and was bemused.

RockyBird · 18/07/2017 09:40

How is the new season of OITNB?I'm still on season 3.

(Not marking place, oh no)

GlitteryFluff · 18/07/2017 09:40

I can't believe she isn't letting this go and escalating it into madness..!

RaspberryOverloadsOnIcepops · 18/07/2017 09:44

Crikey! This woman is deranged Shock

She really wants to get at you, doesn't she? Yet, as you're so open, she'll be the one who suffers here, surely.

JamPasty · 18/07/2017 09:45

Wow, she is one awful awful woman. In contrast to you Radley - you are an absolute and awesome superstar. PS - I fucking love your sense of humour :)

Mix56 · 18/07/2017 09:48

This all started because she thought she could dump her brood at your party & then FO....... it is completely out of proportion.
She is deranged, & not behaving rationally, Personally I would go to the police if it continues.

GabsAlot · 18/07/2017 09:52

i think you need to report this now its harrassment shes batshit

dont reply just print everything off

Msqueen33 · 18/07/2017 09:59

She's the bitch that keeps on bitching!

I'd have thought she'd have fucked off by now!

WankYouForTheMusic · 18/07/2017 10:09

Right just to clarify, the woman who thought OPs birthday party was an invitation for her to dump her five kids and fuck off for the night is now claiming that OP and DH slept together last month?

user1476869312 · 18/07/2017 10:12

OK, this woman is definitely escalating. And, really hate to put a downer on the thread (given how brilliantly Radley is dealing with her) but... if she's coming apart to this extent, maybe someone needs to be looking out for her DC? So perhaps a word with the local police incuding a mention that the woman seems to be having some sort of MH problem and maybe a look needs to be taken at the family set up.

Some people are going to think that it's revenge for her nasty emails, but it wouldn't be. It seems to me (though, OK, don't know anyone concerned) that her behaviour is odd enough that there may be a risk of harm to her DC.

dinkystinky · 18/07/2017 10:28

OP - please respond saying that this is now turning to harassment, to cease all contact with you in any form or you will be reporting to the police. Print off all messages, screenshot all PMs/Whats app messages and block her.

Lukeandlorelai4Ever · 18/07/2017 10:38

She is batshit!! Well done for seeing the funny side! On a serious note, I would stay well away from her, she sounds dangerous.
Her poor kids. Are her kids in school with yours?

kali110 · 18/07/2017 10:39

Id be telling her that the police are really enjoying her fiction.

MrWriter · 18/07/2017 11:02

Oh dear lord, have just caught up on the 1st thread, this women is bonkers.

MadMags · 18/07/2017 11:10

I know you're laughing about all this, but I've come over all protective (thanks PLL thread) and I'm FUMING!!!

This is not ok.

I would respond with the legal definition of harassment and say under it "don't make me call the police" and then just be done with it.

This is absolutely not on!!!

MrMessy · 18/07/2017 11:13

So who was looking after her kids on the night she allegedly had a shagathon with your DH?

emmyrose2000 · 18/07/2017 11:19

Was this the first time someone has ever said 'no' to crazy woman, and so it's a major shock to the system?

Her (over)reaction is just so abnormal that I wonder if she's mentally well.

WhatToDoAboutThis2017 · 18/07/2017 11:21

Good god this woman is crazy Shock