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Charlie Gard Case 5

999 replies

LovelyBath77 · 12/07/2017 09:13

A new thread to follow on from the others about this case.

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CaveMum · 12/07/2017 22:57

Lovely thought Sostenueto.

May tomorrow bring you peace Charlie, and, in time, may your parents find solace.

Sostenueto · 12/07/2017 22:57

Hugs a d kisses lonelymummy, and now I'm bloody hungry and can't get out of bed to get a snack!Grin

rabbitnothare · 12/07/2017 22:57

This is the sort of injustice we should look to address as the MN community imho

This would be a good campaign to get behind.

Flowers to all of you who have explained what you are going through on here.

LovelyBath77 · 12/07/2017 22:58

So reporting did actually work. I noticed some comments agreeing with the need to 'not respond to the trolls' and one about 'trolls coming on ming and blinding' (hmm) etc so anyway at least maybe it will stop them with their horrible threats. I can't see as many of the threatening comments and posts so guess they may have been deleted by FB.

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muckypup73 · 12/07/2017 22:58

DarthMaiden, I wish I could, but either way his parents are going to lose, do not get me wrong, I have ranted and raved, But I have a feeling that tomrow maybe the end of it, I think Charlies army took it too far. And personally I think the judge will know that and anybody in their rightmind would end this asap, for the parents as well as charlie x

LovelyBath77 · 12/07/2017 22:59

'f-ing and blind-ing' that was meant to read. It's interesting, they (CA) seem to project a lot. They say the 'trolls' are doing what they are doing! very strange.

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muckypup73 · 12/07/2017 22:59

LovelyBath77,that is probably why the family are trying to come across as nice now. but its too late......

DarthMaiden · 12/07/2017 23:01

@rabbitnothare

Well there is you, me and Rhodiola.....

Anyone else.....????

We need a bigger team before we ask MNHQ

MommaGee · 12/07/2017 23:02

Lonelymummyof1 no cold pizza makes awesome breakfast, don't share it!!!!!!!

For those who can't afford to do much - if you go to MacDonald please put some change in the charity boxes. Ronald MacDonald Houses are flipping amazing.

LovelyBath77 · 12/07/2017 23:02

I just hope it ends peacefully, whatever happens, for the staff, the parents and the little boy. Fingers crossed.

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MommaGee · 12/07/2017 23:02

I'd be in for it

11122aa · 12/07/2017 23:04

Trump is doing an interview this evening with Pat Robinson - a staunch Pro lifer. Dont be surprised if charlie comes up.

Lelloteddy · 12/07/2017 23:06

I strongly suspect Laura Gard has been given some pretty robust advice about the stuff that's appeared on that page and that statement has been drafted for her, perhaps by the Gard legal team in response to the numerous threats of violence against GOSH staff and their legal team.

For tonight, I hope that little boy is peaceful and painfree. And that whatever happens tomorrow, he will remain so.

smilingmind · 12/07/2017 23:06

Can I join in the group hug and toast please.
I have been posting from my bed for the last week. I have a very painful condition which is incurable but won't kill me anytime soon.
We have a DGS with SEN living with us so my poor DH has to do far too much.
Just had to make the difficult decision to opt out of a family holiday next week and was feeling a bit sorry for myself but the others on here who are so much worse off make me feel ashamed.
I have just come back refreshed after a long gardening conversation on messenger with one of my daughters and I want slow worms !
I am so lucky to have a wonderful family. One of my sons has even offered to stay with me while the others are away. I will be fine but may send him on emergency wine and chocolate runs. Who cares about the diet.
I am sure posting this is quite inappropriate and never meant to. If so please ignore it. I have never posted about it before.
Lonely will be thinking of you and your daughter tonight. Life can be shit sometimes but you meet it with grace.

TheWeeWitch · 12/07/2017 23:09

@Lonelymummyof1 Glad your little ballerina had a positive day Flowers

OH and I were just chatting about how this case is like the perfect storm of almost every issue we regularly rant about to each other. You've got Gove-like dissing of "experts"; Trump/UKIP/far-right style political tendrils (NHS = socialism = bad!); the kind of mob-mentality that resulted in Brexit; issues concerned with disability rights, medical ethics and end of life care; religious nutters leading people to blind faith; and, millions of pounds in charitable giving where the beneficiary is but one white child from a relatively affluent background (when compared with the poorest children worldwide) who is already being cared for for free in one of the worlds best hospitals. This explains why I can't look away - it's everything I worry about, but usually I only fret about one of these things at a time.

Thank goodness for all your lovely people on this thread, because I'd be ranting at randoms in the street otherwise!

DarthMaiden · 12/07/2017 23:10

@muckypup73

I think you misunderstood.

I'm getting increasingly angry about the impact on other families and specifically the financial pressures it puts on them.

LetsGoFlyAKiteee · 12/07/2017 23:11

Flowers Just wana say hugs to you all who have shared stories and anyone who has been through experiences

Limer · 12/07/2017 23:12

I just don't understand the dangerous religious fundamentalists. If heaven is so wonderful, why not let Charlie get there sooner, surely any god would grant a free pass at the pearly gates? Why preserve existence on earth at all costs?

Rachel0Greep · 12/07/2017 23:13

It's interesting, they (CA) seem to project a lot. They say the 'trolls' are doing what they are doing! very strange.

My exact thoughts. I read something earlier on the CA page, along the lines of 'the last thing that [the parents of Charlie] want is hate... I can't remember exactly but I was gobsmacked, on a page filled with vitriol and all sorts of threats towards the staff of GOSH...

I also cannot believe the people claiming to think that poor baby looks healthy. I hope that the right decision is made.

Rachel0Greep · 12/07/2017 23:18

smilingmind just sending you a hug. Flowers

rabbitnothare · 12/07/2017 23:19

I have the same problem, Why are people in the UK so afraid to voice their TRUE opinions..where has freedom of speech gone I ask..? where as all my Italian and USA friends are more than happy to support Charlie, and they do, political correctness gone mad for sure

The irony of writing that on a page where anyone who posts anything other than a blue heart or complete agreement gets abuse and deleted.

GinSoakedTwitchyPony · 12/07/2017 23:20

I'd be up for it.

And cold pizza is my favourite breakfast! Always save a slice or two for the next morning.

It's taken me ages to catch up today. I stayed away from FB nearly all day, just had a look now at CA and am discusted [sic] by several of the post on there, most especially disgusted at the American who is trying to whip up a mob to complain to our 'elected officials' and how we should all accuse GOSH medics of 'murder' .
If the boot was on the other foot and we were interfering in the US legal process I think many there would be in uproar.

GinSoakedTwitchyPony · 12/07/2017 23:21

Well said Limer !

GinSoakedTwitchyPony · 12/07/2017 23:23

A very unMumsnetty hug from me too, smilingmind.

BoreOfWhabylon · 12/07/2017 23:23

DarthMaiden I agree. Perhaps a post in site stuff asking if it's something MNHQ might get behind?

There was an excellent post on a previous thread about this (can't remember who posted it though, threads are too fast).

Lonelymummy so pleased you finally got a hot meal and that your Ballerina has got her lines in.