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The sound of chewing makes me angry!!

165 replies

MineNeverYours · 11/07/2017 13:27

Not really AIBU topic but I have to bring this up as I'm sure I'm not the only one!!
Is there anyone else who cannot STAND the sound of other people chewing???

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MineNeverYours · 11/07/2017 14:22

@HarrietKettleWasHere I'll remember that next time I'm in a busy stressful place
@ThymeLord whispering I found creepy lol

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LiveLifeWithPassion · 11/07/2017 14:22

I love the sound of rain and thunderstorms. One of my favourite sounds is the sound of the indicators in a car on a journey while it's raining.

MineNeverYours · 11/07/2017 14:24

@LiveLifeWithPassion 100% agree. I just got a new car and my indicators are quite quiet though 😔

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thefalloutwillbeawful · 11/07/2017 14:24

Have you ever had to sit next to someone on a Ryanair flight eating an apple then a mango and then pineapple chunks and then suck the juice from the fingers?

I nearly committed murder.

Grin

The other day I was on a train and this super confident girl, sitting right next to me, delved into her bag repeatedly to get large very crunchy crisp like things one after the other - crunching away for ages and then licking her fingers - Angry. It was a London commuter overground train.

Eating on a train that isn't an intercity = cardinal sin and against all rules.

mamma12 · 11/07/2017 14:25

Oh my god yes!!!! It's bad enough on a daily basis but god help anyone chewing near me when I have pms. One time there was a bogof on pringles in the Sainsbury's opposite my work and I wanted to kill every single one of my collages until the offer finished Grin

sticklebrix · 11/07/2017 14:25

It's misanphonia. And its totally your problem, please don't make it other people's.

Misophonia. Totally involuntary and down to scrambled connections in the brain.

It's blighted my life since childhood. Bloody awful. How I wish it was as simple as just getting over it and not making it other people's problem Hmm

MineNeverYours · 11/07/2017 14:26

@thefalloutwillbeawful the amount of times I've had to bite my tongue because I just want to snap and someone who's innocently eating lol

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mamma12 · 11/07/2017 14:26

**coleagues

mamma12 · 11/07/2017 14:27

*Colleagues ffs that's the other thing that annoys me my illiterate autocorrect

ThymeLord · 11/07/2017 14:27

Just ignore that comment stickle, I am Grin

MineNeverYours · 11/07/2017 14:28

I just ignored that comment too.

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TrollMummy · 11/07/2017 14:34

Loud crisp munching and drink slurping just makes me irritated and irrationally angry.

sticklebrix · 11/07/2017 14:35

Thyme and Mine Smile

I can't tell you the relief when I heard that it was an actual thing like tinnitus or similar. Spent years as a teenager thinking I was crazy. The intensity of the reaction is so immediate and overwhelming, isn't it? Nothing like an aversion or the feeling of irritation. I totally understand what you mean!!

We always have music or the radio on at mealtimes Smile

HarrietKettleWasHere · 11/07/2017 14:36

I hate it in the cinema with all that ice crunching about at the bottom of someone's drink when it's finished and they keep trying to get liquid up through the straw anyway and you can hear the slurp abd the sound of the straw scraping on plastic.

I don't go to the cinema much Blush Grin

ThymeLord · 11/07/2017 14:38

I certainly thought there was something very wrong with me when I was a kid/teen! It was quite a relief to hear that it was an actual thing!

MineNeverYours · 11/07/2017 14:48

I moan about it to my mum all the time and she always told me to stop being weird lol

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SpringtoSummer · 11/07/2017 14:50

Oh god, this is me - but what can you actually do to get over it? I hate the fact eating / sniffing / animal grooming noises get to me so much.

BarbarianMum · 11/07/2017 14:50

Well I thought something was very wrong with me when I was a child because I made a noise when I chewed. Years of being shamed and sent out of the room for being "disgusting". Sorry if I offended anyone (and I never said it was your fault or you should get over it stiklebrix) but its no fun being on the receiving end either.

Casschops · 11/07/2017 16:40

Blimmin lip smacking urrrrrgh. Anything clicky, people picking dry skin chewing gum with open mouth- no you don't look cool you look like an idiot....I could go on.

DameSquashalot · 11/07/2017 18:28

Chewing gum is another for me too. 😫

DratThatCat · 11/07/2017 21:22

I'm actually sat here next to my husband who is eating his tea after going to the gym, and I'm on the edge. I'm considering jamming my crocheting hooks into my ears so I can't hear the MUNCH MUNCH SLURP MUNCH.

Either that or I'm going to kill him.

And to make matters worse his legs seem to be directly connected to his jaw so whenever he chews, his leg jiggles. Stops chewing, leg stops jiggling. I need to go upstairs and punch a pillow or something.

Ontheboardwalk · 11/07/2017 21:40

Harriet I'm with you on the drinks in cinemas.

Who on earth came up with the idea that the chomping of popcorn and sweets in a cinema was a good thing

Toniandgit · 11/07/2017 21:45

It's also called '4S' (selective sound sensitivity syndrome) I used to be part of an online support group for sufferers. I joined after one particularly agonising afternoon spent listening to my colleague eating crackers in the office.

Pixie2015 · 11/07/2017 21:48

I can't stand crunchy apple eaters and my heart races if someone comes near me at cinema with nachos or crisps 😱

Schroedingerscatagain · 11/07/2017 21:57

It's Misophonia, there is also Misokinesia which is the form where movement also causes you to react

You can use white, pink and even brown noise to help

It's a spectrum disorder approximately 2/3rds of sufferers are on the autistic spectrum

There is only one specialist in the U.K. And she only sees adults which doesn't help when onset is at puberty typically 8-12 years

Both my dc are affected, one mildly and one so severely she has to attend school from home as she cannot cope in a standard school

Recent research published here in the U.K. has shown a cause at last and they are hopeful that treatment will follow in the next 5 years for severe sufferers

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