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WIBU to wear these boots to a wedding?

140 replies

MiniMummy576 · 05/07/2017 14:16

I have a wedding to go to in October. I'm planning on wearing a long sleeved dark green knitted dress that's about knee length, with black tights and boots very similar to these. The wedding is in a barn and due to the time of year will be pretty cold.
Do you think it would be okay if I wore these boots, or will I look like a prat? Confused

WIBU to wear these boots to a wedding?
OP posts:
Lucked · 05/07/2017 14:50

Nope don't do it

unfortunateevents · 05/07/2017 14:50

Are you an eskimo?

QuizteamBleakley · 05/07/2017 14:51

Is it a Game of Thrones-themed wedding?

blueskyinmarch · 05/07/2017 14:51

My DD1 went to a wedding in a barn in Scotland in November. She wore a dress, a little cardi and normal shoes. She says it was coolish when they were eating but got very warm when they all started dancing. I don’t thing those boots will be right at all for that type of wedding.

FlyingElbows · 05/07/2017 14:51

No no no no no! Those boots are for jeans and a jumper not dress and very definitely not a wedding. If you're looking for a "country" style boot you'll get decent use out of there are way smarter and more practical options than those. I'm sure the wizards on style and beauty could help you out if you pop over there.

QuizteamBleakley · 05/07/2017 14:52

"Wedding is coming, Jon Snerrrrrrrrrrrrr"

SloughCooker · 05/07/2017 14:53

Even if it's in a barn in October the bride and groom will surely be shelling out for heating - in which case, style issues aside, you would melt.

Jejemere · 05/07/2017 14:58

I don't see the problem for a barn wedding, but I wore trainers at my own wedding so I'm probably not the best judge Grin

redjoker · 05/07/2017 15:01

ah, please dont

KoalaDownUnder · 05/07/2017 15:02

Step away from the boots, OP.

Toysaurus · 05/07/2017 15:02

Look fine to me. I much prefer them to ugly flapping sandals flopping around on feet.

Fl0ellafunbags · 05/07/2017 15:02

Green is bad form for weddings and those boots are fugly. Could be worse I suppose, BIL's ex wore her bus driver's uniform to our wedding. It was an interesting choice.

HellonHeels · 05/07/2017 15:02

Is it a posh barn or a drafty rambling old shack?

If the former then no, if the latter, why not?

SapphireStrange · 05/07/2017 15:03

How nasty some people are being.

Totally depends on the wedding. OK, they're not 'smart' attire, but maybe it's the kind of wedding where the bride and/or groom turn up on a tractor, and guests sit in the barn on hay bales; in that kind of setting they'd be perfectly fine.

But for a smart wedding, I don't disagree that a pair of leather boots without fur lining or laces would look smarter and still be warm.

AddictedtoSnickers · 05/07/2017 15:03

I would also rethink the dark green long sleeved knitted dress, too hot and not good for dancing in.

SapphireStrange · 05/07/2017 15:03

Green is bad form for weddings

Is it? Why? I've worn green to weddings and am in fact about to do so again.

milliemolliemou · 05/07/2017 15:05

Green is fine. I'd check whether the barn is heated before wearing the two together. Flat shoes in barn or anywhere with tricky flooring are advisable whether boots or not. And anyone considering flimsy dresses in these circumstances - watch out for the space heaters. They eat little dresses if not properly guarded.

HellonHeels · 05/07/2017 15:06

Green being bad form is just some daft superstition isn't it?

Sisinisawa · 05/07/2017 15:11

Jacques there's always a dress code at a wedding. It's often unwritten but it's still there. These boots would pretty much never be ok.

Witchitywoo · 05/07/2017 15:11

Wear what you want. It's a wedding not a fashion parade. I'm presuming you've been invited because they like you and not just to see what you're going to wear? Two fingers up to the haters OP, and wear them with pride. I actually quite like them!

Tubbyinthehottub · 05/07/2017 15:12

I don't think it'll be that cold.

TequilaSunshine · 05/07/2017 15:13

They're nice boots. NOT for a wedding though, sorry.

RapunzelsRealMom · 05/07/2017 15:13

Good God No! They're horrific, especially for a wedding, no matter the location

pictish · 05/07/2017 15:14

I don't think they're the worst I've seen but there are better than these out there. It is a wedding, not an Alaskan trapping expedition. I'm sure those boots won't be necessary.

Madonna9 · 05/07/2017 15:14

If there's no dress code you could put them on at a later stage. I wouldn't wear them at first.