..to take a sneaky pregnancy test behind DPs back?

[broodynmoody]

Ohh tell me im not!

We've just had our first round of IVF.
Im not supposed to be testing til Monday (13 days after transfer) but I just cant wait that long - and frankly there's no need to with a 5 day blastocyst.
After a long negotiation with DP, he agreed I can test a day earlier, this Saturday. But what can ONE more day hurt?
He won't budge so I'm dying to have a sneaky test tomorrow and do my best face.
Do I or don't I?

Just tell him you can't wait, it's today with him or today without him.

I wouldn't be able to wait. I'm keeping everything crossed for you.

Some of you are awful with how you chuck aside your partners feelings. This is his baby too why can't he share the joy of waiting for a line to appear?

I can understand why you are gagging to do the test but why would you want to cut him out of such an important moment?

If someone did that to me I'd be very hurt, as if they felt my involvement was surplus to requirements. Not the best way to start on your (hopefully) new journey as expectant parents.

Do the right thing and wait until he's there, he might never forgive you otherwise.

If you had not agreed together my position would be "your body, your pee, your choice" but as you agreed IWBU to break that agreement,

Really unfair for people trying to guilt trip you here, of course it's his journey too - but you're either waiting to test on the day the clinic told you to, or the day he told you to - where's your own say?

Best of luck OP, whatever you decide.

Don't do it behind his back.

We did two rounds of ivf and after all the heartbreak we shared together of six years of infertility standing together, seeing that little box say "pregnant" was just amazing.

I didnt end up doing it behind his back..i dragged him to the loo and made us do it together

It was positive

That's lovely news!

Congratulations !!!

Congratulations that is great news, I am so happy for you.

Oh that's wonderful! Enormous congratulations

Congratulations

Oh my goodness!!! Congratulations! I started reading the thread thinking 'I bet the results are at the end because she's persuaded him' I'm so happy for you both!

Congratulations xxx

Congratulations!!!

Oh fantastic

Congratulations

Fantastic!! Congratulations!!

Fantastic! Congrats 😀🎉🎉🎉

Broody that's just wonderful news.

Congratulations OP. Well done.

Congratulations!! Wishing you a smooth and easy pregnancy

Congrats OP

Congratulations! Glad you persuaded him!

Congratulations to you both