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to be a bit sick of the notion that we need to do things to ensure there is no division of muslim vs other?

144 replies

myoriginal3 · 24/05/2017 19:57

I don't hear about these attacks and then go about the place attacking anyone dressed in Muslim attire?
Why does everyone feel the need to tell us NOT to hate the muslim community?
I see no evidence of anyone actually doing this.
It's quite insulting to be honest. As if, because one man has committed a heinous act I would go around abusing all Muslims.
Give us some credit.

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Squirmy65ghyg · 24/05/2017 20:22

Lots of people do.

MasuMara · 24/05/2017 20:26

I would never do it. But it does happen. On the news there was a report of a Muslim shop owner who was spat at.

MsAwesomeDragon · 24/05/2017 20:28

Where I live there have been Muslim women harassed on buses this week, so obviously some people do think like that.

PurpleDaisies · 24/05/2017 20:28

Just because you're not seeing it doesn't mean it isn't happening. Our Muslim next door neighbours have been shouted at in front of their three little children. It's horrible.

Whiskwarrior · 24/05/2017 20:28

You clearly don't read the news much then, OP.

There is always a spike in hate crimes after an attack like this.

I've seen some horrible stuff written by the friend of a friend today on Facebook. I've been engaged in spats with utterly horrible people on Twitter the past two days.

There are people who absolutely do behave like that. Just because you don't do it, others do.

missyB1 · 24/05/2017 20:30

Never underestimate how many dickheads there are out there.

Ginorchoc · 24/05/2017 20:31

A mosque has already been set fire to this week.

Jupitar · 24/05/2017 20:31

3 friends have shared stuff on fb which is anti Muslim, was actually quite surprised at who shared this stuff and who told them to remove it. People reveal their true colours and times like this Shock

Polkadot1974 · 24/05/2017 20:33

Sadly people will and are spouting generalised hatred. Nobody I know but it's happening like others have said.

Whiskwarrior · 24/05/2017 20:33

Yy and my ex SIL has 'liked' this horrible rant by her friend about Muslim terrorists. That's how I saw it. I'm shocked at her to be honest. She actually has Muslim friends, on Facebook. How must they bloody feel to see her liking stuff like that?

Mumchance · 24/05/2017 20:36

Read the papers, OP.

Teatimebear · 24/05/2017 20:37

What a shocking lack of critical thinking from the OP.

It's not insulting for people to say that discrimination is bad. If you feel that it is a personal insult, look at yourself.

SallyGinnamon · 24/05/2017 20:41

There has been one or maybe two arson attacks on mosques in Manchester since the bombing.

myoriginal3 · 24/05/2017 20:42

Maybe I have a nice bunch of FB friends, but nowhere have I seen anything like islamophobia.

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Sarasue1967 · 24/05/2017 20:42

Because it suits the interests of the hand wringing apologists.

Ladyvird135 · 24/05/2017 20:46

'everyone' is not taking to you, as your are obviously an enlightened person embracing others. They are talking to millions of people who are scared, bigotted, 'not-racist-but...', and everything in between. They just might turn their prejudice in to action, such as setting fire to mosques, beating muslims, etc.

harderandharder2breathe · 24/05/2017 20:46

Every time there's an attack, Muslim people report they get increased harassment.

Just because OP hasn't seen it doesn't mean it doesn't happen. I haven't seen it either but I believe that the people who are experiencing it know what's happening better than I do!

There's always ignorant racist twats spouting bullshit on social media as well.

histinyhandsarefrozen · 24/05/2017 20:47

Just go on fb, put in something about the Manchester attack and you will be staggered at the amount of racists there are.

Toysaurus · 24/05/2017 20:47

The bus I was on deliberately didn't stop to pick up a Muslim man this morning. I thought about complaining to First Bus but then it couldn't be proved definitively. His sneer when he looked at him said it all to me though.

gamerwidow · 24/05/2017 20:48

I think you have a nice bunch of friends OP. I've seen people liking posts saying all muslims should be deported even if they've been born here (who knows where too?). Others have been liking far right groups and people like Tommy Robinson. Still more have said Islam should be banned. To be fair a lot of my timeline has also gone the other way and there has been a lot of positive posts about people of all religions and races pulling together. It's depressing though that these incidents always bring the racists out.

MagentaRocks · 24/05/2017 20:48

Really? You haven't seen evidence of people blaming/hating/attacking the Muslim community after terrorist incidents? It happens.

www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2017/may/24/muslim-leaders-in-manchester-report-rise-in-islamophobic-incidents

A 30 second google.

Verbal abuse, assault, criminal damage, arson.

Whiskwarrior · 24/05/2017 20:50

'Handwringing apologists'.

Or, as I prefer to think of myself, a decent human being.

MrsTerryPratchett · 24/05/2017 20:50

Take a trip to Twitter, if you stomach it. Or the comments section of anything.

Although I go the other way and start gurning like a plonker at anyone who looks vaguely Muslim. I'd imagine they all think I'm very odd.

Everytimeref · 24/05/2017 20:50

Toy. Think you should report the bus driver. That's not acceptable and we shouldn't ignore the small stuff or it will escalate.

Livelovebehappy · 24/05/2017 20:52

It does happen OP, but I guess it depends on where you live as to whether you witness it. I work where there are some muslims, and some of us have been pulled up by our manager on the fact that we were talking about the attack and discussing how appalling it was, but apparently a couple of the muslims had complained as they felt uncomfortable. Just don't get why they felt it was an insult against their religion, when it was a discussion about a vile murderer.

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