Neighbours sitting outside my window.

[MasuMara]

There's a courtyard outside my bedroom window, it belongs to my neighbours.

They've placed their table and chairs right outside my window (practically have their heads resting on it!)

The courtyard isn't huge but they could easily place it elsewhere. I've come home today and it's been a long day and I just wanted to lie on my bed and chill ... and he's out there smoking.

I don't feel I should have to sit in the dark to avoid being stared at. Aibu?

YABU for not having spoken to them. They don't know it's problem for you. They are not mindreaders.

Most people would rather not be nuisance to others, but if you don't speak to them. you won't find out.

That's really shit Op & very inconsiderate of them. Have you checked your deeds that there isn't at least half a metre outside the window that belongs to you?

Otherwise you really need to have very loud sex / porn playing with the window wide open & passive aggressively 'talk' to a friend on the phone about the pervert with the table outside your window who does nothing but try to catch you coming out of the shower. Not ideal, I know, but unless you're going to speak to them directly or check re legal recourse for distance to your window, there isn't much you can do.

Dying to know what happened in the end OP

Me too..... come on OP

Or we will come and sit outside your window too :D

Put something like flower pots that stink on your windowsill. Put your own chair out there if possible or put music on really loud with window open when they are out there.

Ayleen you've resurrected a thread from 2017.........