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AIBU to be really pissed off with this Cafe?

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mermaidofthewestside · 07/05/2017 08:44

Morning MN
Went to a cafe yesterday with friends. My daughter has eczema & dairy products really affect her skin. She has not had any in 4 years.
Where I live there are a lot of places that do vegan/dairy free options & dairy free ice-cream is pretty normal everywhere.
They had one dairy free sorbet & I made it really clear that DD couldn't have dairy & asked him to check the cones were dairy free too.
After a few mouthfuls DD became upset & said she didn't want the sorbet & became very itchy. I put it down to tiredness because I didn't want to re-question the cafe staff & our friends had paid & it was quite a small place, so I did that 'don't-want-to-cause-a-scene thing & took DD home. By the time we got home 15 mins later her whole face had blistered & her torso was red & blotchy. She was very upset. I gave her some piriton but DD was unable to go to her friend's party in the PM as she was so itchy & upset.
I rang the cafe to get a list of ingredients as she'd reacted so badly & they told me it had milk in!
They were apologetic & said if we wanted to come back they'd make sure DD got a free dairy free treat but today I feel really annoyed that DD had to put up with some major itchiness & miss out on a party & her day was essentially ruined because of their mistake.
I don't want to give them a slating on Tripadvisor or anything but don't feel very happy about all this on reflection.... WWYD?

OP posts:
SoupDragon · 18/05/2017 18:13

Illiteracy and ignorance must be a terrible affliction, Paris

Willow2017 · 18/05/2017 19:23

Paris
Are you really that Stupid? How can you 'give' someone 'lactose intolerance'?

Giving somebody something that they are allergic/ have an intolerance to to could KILL THEM. Wtaf is 'prissy' about that? It's the cafes responsibility to ensure that they follow food regulations regarding allergens it's that simple.

Maybe you should educate yourself on intolerance/allergies in case you decide to give your kids friends something they are allergic to because you think it's nonsense and you end up with a kid having fatal anaphylaxis on your kitchen floor.

PeaFaceMcgee · 18/05/2017 19:49

Ignore the goady fucker. It's been spouting nonsense on a few threads today.

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