Firstly, I think that we need to change our whole view on the lives of people who have suffered sexual violence as children. honestly think the consensus that my life has been "ruined" is utterly unhelpful. This is a view that immediately writes me (and others) off for the rest our lives, we are pretty much destined to failure.
It also gives the perfect excuse for those responsible for making the changes to support systems that are desperately needed. No one wants to support people who society have doomed to failure. This attitude has got to change. The effects of childhood sexual abuse can be long lasting, and the impact is huge, but it should not be viewed that that person's life is ruined.
13 years is sadly a long sentence for these types of crimes, and it's unlikely there will be any rehabilitative progress during this time. How can you rehabilitate someone for the real world when you are keeping them behind bars? You simply cannot. Rehabilitation and treatment can only be successful if it happens outside in the outside world. I cannot think of another way we do this for people who have already offended.
I do believe that people who believe they are at risk and seek help prior to offending can be helped and supported in our communities - and for them the arguments that all peados should be shot, or, hung, drawn and quartered, is not helpful - in my mind it actually elevates risk of them not seeking help and therefore offending.
So, what's the options? Leave them in jail for ever and hope they die a slow death from another inmate where we can all claim that we did uphold their human rights? A community of offenders somewhere away from our societies? The death sentence? Longer prison sentences? Castration?
At the moment I am in favour of them living in artificial communities away from the general population for the rest of their lives. I don't think any of the others are sensible solutions (particularly when taking into account those who have yet to offend seeking help rather than committing offences).