Can I safely assume she's a lesbian now? Or shall I give up my dream and leave well alone

[nowimqueer]

Absolutely beautiful woman joined our team four months ago. I was friendly but she made me so nervous I kept my distance a little bit so I didn't blush and make an idiot of myself. She was clearly not lesbian. She's incredibly feminine
-and has acrylic nails-.

However she made an effort to be friendly and I decided to just make a new friend in work. She added me on Facebook last night and OMG!!!

On 'interested in' it says Women. She's been to every gay pride march since 2007
-not that I checked her Facebook that far back-

She volunteers at a LGBT charity for HIV positive gay men.

She doesn't seem to have had any girlfriends but she has said previously she's never had a relationship as she's never met the one and is fussy!

She's shared a poster that says 'when people say I don't look gay. Sorry I forgot to shower in rainbows and sprinkles this morning'.

So can I now assume she's lesbian? Or could she just be very involved in gay rights?

And how far out of your league does someone need to be before you don't even bother trying.

For reference, she looks like Megan Fox. I look like Melissa Ferrick!

[lasttimeround]

Mmmm Melissa Ferrick.....misses point of thread

[SuperJesus]

As a gay woman I keep mine short as does dp, if she forgets to cut her nails for a while believe me I let her know! So no I wouldn't expect a lesbian to have massively long nails but it's fairly obvious from her fb she is gay so perhaps she just isn't having sex just now, or she's a pillow princess 😀

[WorshipTheGourd]

amusedbush
Ah. I have ex who was bass guitarist in rock band.
can you tell? :)
He is on his 3rd divorce (lucky escape, methinks)

[LettuceMash]

Can you all PLEASE stop guessing.

We can sort thus in an instant. Has she got short hair?