I don't think there's anything medically wrong with her
I think she has been psychologically damaged by her parents and exh.
I also think she committed fraud by omission (what she didn't say. I guess when she stopped correcting people she got used to that mindset and was happy that she "passed". I still think there's argument that she threw others under the bus in taking a scholarship/taking up a position but if actions speak louder than words then she was trying to do her best for the community, it just wasn't necessarily her place to do that).
She needs to make money as she is flat broke and has a toddler and other dependants. It might be her fault but if she can't make enough from hairdressing then she is probably desperate.
Michael Jackson didn't want to be white, no. I do think he was suffering from body dysmorphic disorder though. I agree he was gorgeous back in the day. His father has a lot to answer for.
I do not know the stats for late transitioning transmen. To a certain extent I can imagine it might be easier to pass though.
Kellie Maloney is an older trans woman. I think she looks fine but she has both spent and suffered a lot (facial reconstruction) to look more
"feminine". Sadly, her voice will give her away although I do know that vocal training help some. Rebecca Root is evidence of that.
I think if there is help with wardrobe as opposed to a "drag" look then trans women, whether they pass or not, can look elegant.
As for why it can takes two decades to transition or come out the closet, I guess it's called denial or trying desperately to fit until it is just not sustainable anymore. I can understand the hurt of spouses being confronted with that.
I'd rather see late transitioners than those who are so young they might not know who they are just yet.
But no one should force themselves to live a lie.
I do not know how many pre op trans women are refused surgery on medical grounds or just cannot afford it. Those that transition without hormones or surgery, both of which have health implications, make it harder for those that have though.
Sadly it is the non trans abusing the system (Ian Huntley) or the vocal trans activists who are throwing transgender people under the bus.
To those who then protest that transgender people need to be more vocal in protesting, many Sparticans admit they express on here as it is safer to do so, therein lies the answer: transgender people will also receive the same abuse. Not everyone can be an activist.
Which brings us back to the thread topic: Rachel was a charlatan but from what I read advocated well/was a good activist.
is an activist less of an activist if the issues they are campaigning on have never or will never affect them. Do you have to have lived experience to be an ally?