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To have wanted to report this guy

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Lalalax3 · 10/03/2017 18:28

Getting off a packed train at King's Cross today I noticed an extremely drunk man with his daughter. She was about 5/6, he had evidently brought her up to London for the weekend. I know he was drunk because a) he REEKED of booze b) his eyes were red c) he nearly fell off the train getting off. He went the wrong way towards the end of the platform before someone pointed him in the right direction. Last I heard of him was 'Right, let's go to Lessersqqquare'

My heart broke in two for his lovely shiny girl, with her backpack and excited eyes.

Should I have reported him? Could I have? Who to?

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NavyandWhite · 10/03/2017 19:23

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TheFirstMrsDV · 10/03/2017 19:25

OhIdo
If you are going to be a smartarse its probably best to check with google first.
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DearMrDilkington · 10/03/2017 19:25

Well if he owns pitbulls he must be an abusive thug.Hmm

This whole story is imaginary isn't it op?

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WorraLiberty · 10/03/2017 19:28

But were they lovely shiny pitbulls with excited eyes?

And backpacks

MinimumPaymentMaximumBurrito · 10/03/2017 19:32

Oh! The pit bulls were drunk on the train! Got it. 🚂 🐶

Lalalax3 · 10/03/2017 19:34

I don't want sympathy for witnessing this. To suggest I do is bonkers.

Im not happy that I didn't act. In hindsight I should've. But I didn't see how I could've, without following this man and his child with my two year old in tow.

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WorraLiberty · 10/03/2017 19:35

Yes, but I think they only travelled as far as Barking.

Or it might have been the Isle of Dogs.

Lalalax3 · 10/03/2017 19:35

I don't care about the man owning pit bulls. The manner in which he was speaking about them was disorganised and, well, drunken.

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WorraLiberty · 10/03/2017 19:36

So why didn't you follow him with your two year old in tow?

I mean, until you got as far as a member of staff - of which there are tons at King's Cross?

Lalalax3 · 10/03/2017 19:37

If I had followed him, how would I also have found a guard/policeman?

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Userone1 · 10/03/2017 19:40

You were on the same train as them, you overheard the conversation of the little girl being put on the train alone? Close enough to smell the booze, see his red eyes and hear his slurred speech?

WorraLiberty · 10/03/2017 19:40

You would have passed loads of staff members, dressed in bright hi-vis waistcoats/jackets Confused

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Lalalax3 · 10/03/2017 19:41

He was getting off as I was getting off. We were in the vestibule for about five mins prior to exiting the train.

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ilovesooty · 10/03/2017 19:42

I'm confused.

NavyandWhite · 10/03/2017 19:43

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Lalalax3 · 10/03/2017 19:43

Worra: I think I've made it pretty clear that o should've acted. And feel shit about not doing so. I don't know why you're giving me this advice now. I'm not looking for sympathy.

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Userone1 · 10/03/2017 19:43

From what I can gather dad was on the train with girl, so was OP and she overhead the conversation of little girl and dad about being put on the train by her mum to go and meet her dad! Confused

Lalalax3 · 10/03/2017 19:45

Correct

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WorraLiberty · 10/03/2017 19:45

You don't know why I'm giving your this advice now?

Errr that would be because you started a thread asking Should I have reported him? Could I have? Who to?

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NavyandWhite · 10/03/2017 19:46

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Lalalax3 · 10/03/2017 19:47

I know Navyandwhite, I only know what I saw and heard

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WankingMonkey · 10/03/2017 19:48

Did you see any goats?

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