If we can't bring intersex into it how is it okay to bring rape victims into it?
Because rape victims are actually affected by the transnonsense, and negatively, and are the most vulnerable to this, too, as they don't have the time to just make another appointment with a different gynecologist when they need gynecological treatment right now because of the rape.
But you are right, we should not even fucking have to bring rape victims into it.
A woman has a right to privacy, whether she was raped or not. Bringing rape victims into it is a desperate attempt to make the pro-self-identification side develop even a tiny, tiny bit of empathy.
But there is no need to talk of rape victims. Let us talk, instead, of women who are accused of having taken drugs, and are forced to let a male watch them pee because said male identifies as female.
Let us talk instead of women who are suspected of a crime and are forced to let a male grab their breasts and vulva because said male identifies as female.
That is sexual violence, so ... yeah, sorry, it is impossible to not bring victims of sexual violence into it. This system makes women victims of sexual violence, up to and including rape.