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To be very concerned about friends weight loss and eating habits?

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FriendIsActingStrange · 11/02/2017 21:39

This time last year she was a size 14 with normal eating habits and a normal attitude to food. Then one day she suddenly decided she was going to go on a health kick. All well and gone but fast forward a year later and I'm worried she is taking it too far.

She has lost a lot of weight and she is now a size 10 and tbh looks a bit too thin through her frame. Her diet now consists of salads, jacket potatoes and she will only eat homemade food and food she has prepared herself. She will only drink water or tea except on special occasions.

AIBU to be worried? She looks so thin now and so obsessive about food Sad

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Allthebestnamesareused · 12/02/2017 16:17

Maintenance is harder than actually losing weight.

Instead of wanting her to be how you want her to be why not support her decisions and congratulate her that she can maintain.

14 isn't big by the way anyway but her size is none of your business especially as she appears to have lost weight in a healthy manner.

Are you a bit jealous? Have you lost your "fat friend" and want to be the slim one again? That often happens when someone loses weight.

Greta84 · 12/02/2017 16:24

I think you should be feeling very happy for your friend that she's totally turned her health around. She knows her habits and knows what to do to keep herself a healthy weight. YABU and I hope you don't comment on her eating.

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