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307 replies

Chipperton · 29/01/2017 06:46

I'm really in two minds about this. I know A&E is crazy at the moment, but I am really quite worried about 3 year old DS.

He's been complaining of leg pain for the last few weeks, I decided to 'wait and see' thinking it was just growing pains. Over the last week the leg pain has got worse, he's been holding his leg and crying, calpol/ibuprofen not having much effect (although the pain comes and goes). He's also lost weight, is generally fatigued, has a poor appetite and for the last 3 days, a fever.

I suspect the fever is just viral but I'm quite worried about the leg and the general malaise. His childminder (goes 3 days a week) and nursery (goes 1 day a week) have both commented that he doesn't seem to be himself.

We saw Out of Hours Nurse yesterday who had a look at him and declared that she 'couldn't really do anything' and to see the GP on Monday. So no point going back there.

What he needs (I think) is a blood test. AIBU to go to A&E with him today - he's never been to A&E before (we're not overly anxious parents but we are really worried about this)

OP posts:
TeaCakeLiterature · 04/02/2017 17:19

Hope everything is ok with your son. Thinking of you both

MrsHandles · 04/02/2017 17:39

Waiting for an update. Hope your son is ok OP Flowers

Zippidydoodah · 04/02/2017 18:13

Ah, I hope your son is ok Chipperton.

I know a two year old who was hospitalised for a couple of weeks with a hip infection; she's ok now luckily. Sending good wishes Flowers

MrsGosling71 · 04/02/2017 18:40

Hope your little boy is ok Chipperton x

sopsmum · 04/02/2017 18:43

Not to frighten you op but my child has recently been diagnosed with cancer following very similar symptoms. We were weeks getting diagnosed after originally waiting 8 weeks for an urgent ultrasound ordered by my very efficient gp on my first visit. If your child is deteriorating in the manner you describe I do think in your position I would attend a&e if I had my time again.

sopsmum · 04/02/2017 18:44

Sorry just read the thread

Fairybella · 04/02/2017 18:48

Hope your boy is ok

pieceofpurplesky · 04/02/2017 18:49

Has the OP not come back? Hope all is ok

GetOrfMyBin · 04/02/2017 20:16

Hope your DS is ok OP Flowers

SparklyMagpie · 04/02/2017 21:36

Also keep checking in OP, I really hope it's just a case you've forgotten about the thread and your son is happy and healthy!! Sending love x

MadisonAvenue · 05/02/2017 12:11

Hope everything is okay.

mummypeepee · 05/02/2017 15:03

I keep checking too! Hope all is well x

Chimchar · 05/02/2017 18:22

Thinking of you too sopsmum. I hope your little one responds quickly and well to their treatment. Sending you hugs too... I can't begin to imagine the worry. Xx

sunnyhills · 05/02/2017 18:46

I have a really not good feeling about this Sad

NavyandWhite · 05/02/2017 18:50

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DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 05/02/2017 19:11

Oh, this has been reinstated HQ took it down Confused

NavyandWhite · 05/02/2017 19:13

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DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 05/02/2017 19:14

Yeah, weird, the message said they were looking into it, now it's back.

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 05/02/2017 19:17

...Or not weird, that's why it's back!

GlitteryFluff · 05/02/2017 19:18

Hope everything is ok Flowers

NavyandWhite · 05/02/2017 19:18

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HCantThinkOfAUsername · 07/02/2017 10:20

Still thinking of you OPFlowers

sopsmum · 08/02/2017 00:25

Thank you chimchar, luckily it is one of the less serious ones (I didn't even know that was a thing) but still a massive worry and chemo for at least a year.

WannabeGilmoreGirl · 08/02/2017 00:58

Sorry to hear your news Sopsmum. Hope your little one gets better soon.

Thinking of you OK. Hope he is getting the treatment he needs.