" I might identify a whole load more with a female character in a role as a medic or scientist, or in a tomboy like role, than one as a popstar, or model, but I still aspire to be the like female characters that engage me more than the male characters that engage me."
I would gently suggest his has nothing to do with 'gender' but the fact you are the same sex.
I do reognise some will truely identify with the opposite sex and this is what will be called Gender but from the clips of different types of trans women I wonder if we are trying to collect a view of 'gender' it would be easier to say that they fall into different categories of trans women. That won;t be something easy to categorise as people never want to fit into someone else's gender pattern, look how hard women work to avoid being labelled as such (right).
Gender really could mean anything, why would females be less likely to be medics? My doctor is female.
Indeed (I love Octonaughts, DS loved Kwazi) but in almost all kids films/TV/stories there will be one or two female characters and they will be the love interest for one or two of the male characters; and then all the male characters will have other story lines. i am sure you notice it but I wonder if you remember it all as intently as I do!
I wish I had this memory for other things!
A very good example of this is the Madagascar series which features a female owl, who one of the Penguins falls for, the hippo who the giraffe loves, (she gets her own love interest too, Motto Motto), a sexy leopard or something, a very mean human female villain, a mean granny villain, a lioness, the bear in the tutu and ... drum roll.... a wooden doll which one of the penguins grows attached to (love interest).
It's hilarious and I love it but let's be honest unless my mind may be failing me basically that is 4 films and only just over half a dozen 'female' characters, one not even alive!
As against 3 main animals, four male penguins, male monkeys, several male human characters, a male villain in Pengines of Madagascar, the North Wind Team minus the owl, the circus minus tut and the leopard, King Julius, Alex's dad and uncle and the police force from France minus the Edith Piaf character!
So when females are looking to associate in films or stories there are virtually no female roles, female heroes and no female leads.
Kwazi is a cat, so identifying with a cat or a male character is fine, but at some point girls need to find the role models and heros in the things they read and see.
Phew how did we get from prison to Octonaughts!