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Are you famous!?

551 replies

mum2Bomg · 14/01/2017 23:02

I recon there must be loads of famous people on here! Holly Willoughby - totally on here. Everyone from Loose Women - here! Are you a famous? If you are then NC and then post and NC back - I'd love to know!

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1MorePiece · 17/01/2017 22:19

I was on a channel 4 show couple of years ago so had 5 mins of fame and a brief article in a magazine. Was recognised locally and put me off wanting to be famous

CareBearsEveryWhere · 17/01/2017 22:29

I, rather inadvertently have become known to a very big sleb (British but a big name globally). I've known him five years now and I admit I do love the fuss I get when I see him! Our paths cross only a handful of times a year but I always get showered in kisses and hugs (I think he's quite fit so no complaints!!). He's invited me to several red carpet and party events on his guest list and I have his PA and PR's numbers if I ever need to contact him.

I'm very ordinary but since knowing this person I've been introduced to many big names and had a small slice of the glitzy lifestyle. I've even been to Hollywood & NYC for different things because of this.

This person is not down to earth at all and has staff for everything (although he's really nice & funny about it so it doesn't seem TOO weird!). He does loads more for charity than anyone realises (just doesn't make a fuss about it like some!) and is ALWAYS gracious to fans in every instance.

The downside is, everyone wants a slice of the pie. I don't tell many people I know this person quite well because when I have done they all want something. He's famously very wealthy and I've actually had people ask me to ask him if he can fund houses, businesses, school fees, cars for them - usually saying 'oh it would be a drop in the ocean for him'. This INFURIATES me no end. I've no idea how famous people deal with that all the time! I'd rather gouge my own eyes out than ask ANYONE for money!

Just to add - although most celebs I've met (usually via this person) have been just lovely, there are three names that, despite their jolly public personas, are absolutely when the cameras are off VILE!!

justforthisthread1 · 17/01/2017 23:08

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justforthisthread1 · 17/01/2017 23:12

I became unexpectedly famous. Have been on tour all over the world and have won and been nominated for the biggest prizes on the planet for my line of 'work'. I've lived like a hermit for the past two years or so though because the anxiety that comes with fame has become crippling. I wish that I could turn the clock back and make it all go away tbh.

FeralBeryl · 17/01/2017 23:19

Oh Justfor that's awful Sad
Sorry it's turned out like this - would CBT or similar be beneficial to help the anxiety side of things?

WellErrr · 17/01/2017 23:19

Is that you Susan Boyle?? Shock Smile

Seriously though just, hope you're getting on top of the anxiety, whoever you are. I certainly wouldn't want to be famous, I think it would be far too tough.

NotShittingYou · 17/01/2017 23:23

You have to tell us who is vile @CareBearsEveryWhere. It's the MN law!!

or at least head over to the blind gossip thread

lingle · 17/01/2017 23:25

My boss once turned Enormous Tiger down for a job.

lingle · 17/01/2017 23:27

Sorry to hear that justforthisthread x

justforthisthread1 · 17/01/2017 23:33

Feral, i've thought about CBT or suchlike but i'm cynical about these things. I just try to live as normal a life as possible now, I find that helps stabilise me. And also, wine is my friend Grin. I also love being on MN and avoid other social media. MN chills me out!

I'm definitely not Susan Boyle [Grin] [Grin] [Grin]

TheresABluebirdOnMyShoulder · 17/01/2017 23:44

Not famous but my DH is a dead ringer for a particular celeb and is regularly mistaken for him. So sometimes we will be out for dinner or on the tube and become aware that people are staring and whispering (once one person starts it seems to spread like wildfire). Since this celeb is married with children, these people must think they've really got a good 'scoop' when they see DH and I holding hands 😂 I'm so glad neither of us are actually famous, it must be awful to have the staring/whispering/surreptitious photography all the time.

FeralBeryl · 18/01/2017 01:57

Yeah, I tend to be rather sceptical about similar things Justfor Wink
Maybe something to keep in the back of your mind for the future if things don't improve though.
I'm not remotely famous but have quite a social media presence for work which was the emotional undoing of me. I've stopped facebook and do the bare minimum on the other platforms.
I can't comprehend how hideous it would be for anyone known. People genuinely think they have the right to know your every move and demand your time at the most ridiculous hours of the day like now
I hide here for self preservation reasons.

Devilishpyjamas · 18/01/2017 07:38

Justfor - do look at some sort of counselling. I've only observed fame when ds2 has been acting with famous people but I'll never forget the wall of jostling women after his first show with a Big Star. I am not an anxious person but it was very overwhelming.

We always enjoyed watching the tactics used by some cast members to avoid stage door (where possible). It seems a lot of people don't enjoy it (& I can see why).

From the little snapshots of fame I have seen it just looks so intrusive. i can see why it would lead to anxiety.

I've lived in a few situations where I've stood out (1) in rural Japan 25 years ago and (2) going out and about with my severely disabled son (I used to get ds2 to dance if people were staring). Both of those made me appreciate anonymity - must be a million times worse with fame.

justforthisthread1 · 18/01/2017 08:40

Thanks for your kind words both.

It's really hard to get away from yourself these days. I reckon you could just about deal with fame healthily back in the 70s or 80s or something. But now, it's all a 24 hour machine so I get your comparison to social media Feral. I often wonder about that actually, it seems that every company assumes that people want to be a social media star these days - what if somebody doesn't want to be on the company twitter page, linkedin, etc?

justforthisthread1 · 18/01/2017 08:42

Sorry to hear about people staring at your disabled son btw Devilish. I think a lot of people just respond rather thoughtlessly to things. I hope he doesn't notice too much.

lingle · 18/01/2017 09:09

I work (advise) in the tech/venture capital sector which as we all know is the new showbiz.

You can reach a point where not being on LinkedIn etc becomes a plus rather than a minus. But you have to be rich!

ShatnersWig · 18/01/2017 09:15

Not famous nationally (thank God) but certainly well known locally. Have been stopped in the street by strangers quite a bit. That's quite enough!

sashadjas · 18/01/2017 18:53

Don't know about famous, infamous maybe...Wink

Devilishpyjamas · 18/01/2017 18:56

He doesn't notice at all justfor - which is definitely a blessing.

Devilishpyjamas · 18/01/2017 18:58

And yes I have definitely noticed that if someone is famous there is an expectation that they are there and available for everyone all the time. Very difficult.

Butteredpars1ps · 18/01/2017 21:51

justfor I was also a CBT denier - then I tried it. I have learned some very useful techniques from a great counsellor and not just CBT. If you find the right person for you it is truly amazing.

Do you work in music?

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AlreadyGone · 18/01/2017 22:07

Congratulations fizzy

Velvian · 18/01/2017 22:09

What do your parents think about it, Fizzy?

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