Oh BRAVO OP, what a bunch of free-loading, unmannerly, grabby fuckers. Pretty sure NicholARSE won't be round, he knows he is due a bollocking and to get that from a mere simpering girly like you will be more than he can tolerate. Perhaps he can sort it out in a manly fashion with your DH, whose thinking won't be clouded by kittens, embroidery and nattering.