You're never going to get gentle supportive posts when you post in AIBU with no actual facts or context, clearly very angry and drip feeding highly dramatic one liners.
Now, of you want more supportive posts I'd suggest posting in a different section and explain the contact of a lot of this stuff. If I read something like 'I'm so upset, Ive been bullied at work for x months and I've finally snapped, & I can't take it anymore', that would create a completely different picture that people could empathize with. Or 'just had an argument with my father, so upset and I could have done with his support' that also would've so much better
Your posts were so fraught with anger and upset, that it was impossible to know what kind of dramatic and serious situation might be unfolding, from posts that were 'I'm raging, my father says my anger is effecting the children, I'm still raging and I have a sw (randomly thrown into the post) that seems to be relevant to my anger and my children' then 'my father is coming to take my children away (from me)'
You can feel anger without having an anger problem. And losing control like that can be a sign that you've dismissed and held back anger for too long, rather than that you are a very angry person generally. If we learn how to show respect and care for ourselves then anger can be seen as a positive emotion which is a spur to prompt action, rather than something out of control and big and scary. So I'd also suggest looking at areas of your life where you are being pushed beyond your endurance, and see if you can resolve those areas before you explode with rage another time. Un-listened-to anger builds up and up, leaks out into your daily life and the people around you, as it turns from a healthy anger to a violent impotent rage.
Anyway, that's the kind of stuff I'd be thinking of if this thread was the kind of thread which is about support...