WIBU to leave 10 year old at home with his nan while the rest of us go to Florida?

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10 year old son has caught a nasty bug and he is pretty much in bed 24/7 and has been for a couple of days. He has been having lots of fluids but has the full d & v. He is ok though but no way is he ok to come away. We rarely go on big holidays but do go to somewhere in Europe every year. We are going to Orlando for Christmas I have 5 children and I think it will be really magical. He is very close to my nan and they spend a lot of time together. The last thing I want to do is leave him but I do have 4 other children that cannot wait for this holiday and I don't really know what to do. WIBU to go away with other children and leave him here with his nan?

Hurray!

I'm so pleased for you, I hope you all have a wonderful time!

Thanks for the update OP, have a wonderful holiday!

So glad you got there okay! Have a wonderful time

A love a happy ending.
So pleased you all made it..
Hope you all have a wonderful Xmas and cherish the memories.

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Glad you got there.

Wishing you all peace and goodwill for Christmas.

So glad things worked out for you. Have an amazing Christmas

That's awesome! Enjoy Florida and have a wonderful Christmas

Have a great time OP and best wishes to your family!

So glad you made it

Thank you for all the kind wishes

I wouldn't leave him. Find some solution...him flying out later? This would be THE childhood event (the Home Alone type exclusion of him) that he will always remember. Just think, for the rest of his life he will have to hear from his siblings their laughter and memories of this epic family holiday. Hard situation op.

I missed the end of the thread! Yay op. Have a lovely Xmas!! !

Aw I'm so pleased for you, hope you all have an amazing time.

So pleased you got there, have an amazing time xx

Hurray. I'm so pleased you all made it. That's just made my day. Have a happy time creating great memories OP.

🌞🕶🎢🏖 well done op you did it. Have fab time you all deserve it.

Oh wonderful! So pleased! Have an amazing time!

what a bizarre post..sad if true

Oh lala there's been enough troll hunting shit on this thread!

If you don't like it or don't believe it, why don't you do one

I'm so glad it worked out OP! An I hope you all have a fabulous and germ free Christmas!

lala bore off, read the thread and you'll see the OP was in an impossible situation

I just said to my dh "I wonder if user got to Florida" 😂 and I am so glad that you did, I hope you all have an absolute ball and that you and the kids are ok this first Christmas without your dh x

Lala, Mumsnet has removed the other troll hunting, it's all just hurtful. I really don't need it.

We had a fab day today. Thank you everyone

Dose him up and fly him out with you or one of you stay behind and take a later flight or fly him unaccompanied in a couple of days but don't leave him on his own with his man that is awful