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to expect social services after 6 year old burnt foot on cooker? Feel horrendous

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Soscared100 · 19/12/2016 13:10

Title says it all really
Am petrified social services will now be involved after google searching what happens next
My 6 year old climbed onto the kitchen side last night and stood on one of the electric hobs.
It had been turned off for approx 10 mins as was making her milk for bed and she went out there saying she was getting a cup off the side, instead she climbed up to get a different cup from the cupboard.
After an hour running under water it was only red so we followed the advice on the NHS website and applied Vaseline once completely cooled and wrapped in cling film and gave calpol but shortly after I noticed the blister covered 1/3 of her foot.
I feel sick even writing it as I just never thought she would do this, she isn't even a climber and we only took our baby gates off the kitchen a few months ago as she could undo them.
Called NHS direct once I noticed the size of the blister when she had fallen asleep and I was able to remove the cling film and we were told to go to A&E who cut the blister off, wrapped it and sent us to the burns hospital 20 miles away.
Only recently back from there and will be there every 3 days for as many weeks to get the dressing changed and so on.
Feel so guilty and also completely panicked social services will now be involved as I could have prevented this happening.
There were lots of safeguarding questions at both hospitals and both asking if we had social services involved prior to this ( we haven't ) but none said they were going to contact them but just don't know what to think.
My poor little girl.

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TheCakes · 31/12/2016 20:29

Accidents happen. I'm sure your concern and your account of how it happened were entirely consistent with the injuries. If they had safeguarding concerns they'd have been in touch by now, surely?

Soscared100 · 31/12/2016 20:50

Yes I'm sure they would have. I really shouldn't have googled as wasn't worried at all really until I did that and then it just seemed any sort of burn resulted in SS!

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Grilledaubergines · 31/12/2016 21:07

Easy enough to say I know, but please please don't worry about SS. Those questions are usual. I took teen DS to walk in clinic as he had an infected ingrowing toe nail (2 week wait for GP appt, hence needing walk-in clinic) and was asked if any SS involvement. I was a bit taken aback admittedly but sadly it's a sign of the times.

It sounds like you dealt with it as a loving parent. Any contact from SS, answer honestly and they will see the same.

Alexthekid · 31/12/2016 21:54

Six is old enough to know not to dick about climbing on things or to mess about in kitchens.

Can I just add to this thread that, a couple of years ago I wanted to fix my blind in the kitchen, so I climbed onto the worktop and crawled across to the window.... across the electric hob

The hob had been earlier on to make dinner.

I burnt my knee.

I was in my 30s at the time. Accidents happen! I think everyone is aware that accidents sometimes occur - even SS.

Soscared100 · 01/01/2017 11:52

I thought it was old enough too but evidentially not

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