Who gets the premium room?

[Strandedinthehills]

My husband and I have taken my son and his girlfriend away for the weekend for my sons birthday. Couldn't book two standard rooms so had to book one standard one premium. The premium room comes with a bottle of champagne, flowers and chocolates.

I think my son and his girlfriend should get the premium room as it's a treat for his birthday. My dh thinks we should as we are paying. Who is bu?

It would be like buying them chocs, but buying yourselves a better box and eating it in front of them

It's no way abusive, just a bit selfish

I really do get what you're saying BigChoc. And I initially said to give ds the room. However, when op said her other ds is also going, I thought perhaps it best for op and dh to have the bigger room so as not to set a precedent if they ever took their other ds for his birthday and he didn't get the same treatment as 3 lower spec rooms were available. Or if the other ds is miffed for not getting a better room too. It sounds like quite a competitive dynamic so the other ds would definitely notice.