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'supported living for challenging youngsters' being built next door.

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getyourselfchecked · 18/10/2016 11:01

NC for this as could be outing. This is more of a WWYD really. I am at risk of sounding like a right NIMBY and I hate that its bringing this out in me but...
I am a single parent about to move to a new house. Building work has started on a 'supported living for challenging youngsters' development right next door.
Now, I have lived in some of the most gang-riven areas in the country without a thought but in my old age and with a child I admit I am worried about crime, drugs and ability to sell house on. I love the house and everything else is good.
WWYD? Still proceed with the purchase?

This is a genuine post, I don't have many people to discuss this with and I have never worried about house values etc in my life! I am genuinely surprised at my reaction to this.

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Palomb · 18/10/2016 20:04

Why should a person be happy to live next to someone who spits or throws chairs at them?

Ausernotanumber · 18/10/2016 20:04

Alternatively. What fanjo said.

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 18/10/2016 20:05

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fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 18/10/2016 20:06

But if she doesn't value the opinions of actual parents then she can rest happy in knowledge that MN posters think we are overreacting.

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 18/10/2016 20:07

Otherwise if I was her I would think on it.

Palomb · 18/10/2016 20:07

Op said As far as I know, it is not young people with learning disability. That wouldn't bother me at all and I'm sorry if any parents of LD children were offended. It's for homeless people aged 16-24.

Read the thread. No-one said anything a about disabilities. RTFT.

Ausernotanumber · 18/10/2016 20:07

Section 26 of the equality act 2010 -

Other prohibited conduct

26Harassment

(1)A person (A) harasses another (B) if—
(a)A engages in unwanted conduct related to a relevant protected characteristic, and
(b)the conduct has the purpose or effect of—
(i)violating B's dignity, or
(ii)

UmbongoUnchained · 18/10/2016 20:07

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ChathamDockyard · 18/10/2016 20:07

Not only would I not buy the house I wouldn't buy any house that was next door to any house designed for teens or young adults including student accommodation.

Ausernotanumber · 18/10/2016 20:08

Sorry

(ii)creating an intimidating, hostile, degrading, humiliating or offensive environment for B.

Mumsnet at the minute you are 26(ii) for those of us who have a vested interest in disability equality.

What are you going to do about it ?

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 18/10/2016 20:09

Yes that's what it is umbomgo.alternatively. grow up.

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ChathamDockyard · 18/10/2016 20:10

I thought Karigans post was perfectly ok. There is no reason that she can't be a brilliant caring teacher and still not want to live next to her students.

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fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 18/10/2016 20:11

Palomb you RTFT. We are talking aboit a later post on the thread.

BeJayKayven · 18/10/2016 20:11

I must agree with Umbongo

The thread does seem to have been hijacked and gone off the original topic.

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fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 18/10/2016 20:13

Tbh I have pretty much left though. Not posted for couple of months and don't want to much any more either. Just wanted to back Owllady up.

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MoreCoffeeNow · 18/10/2016 20:14

Don't you just hate it when threads get derailed?

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 18/10/2016 20:14

Who knows what it is.

Anyway wonder why I don't like posting here much any more. Can't imagine.

Soubriquet · 18/10/2016 20:14

Why the arguing?

The OP had confirmed it is not for disabled children but simply homeless people.

Why the hell are people getting angry?

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