"Today 09:46 unlimiteddilutingjuice
"Unlimited I'm a bit confused- why can't working class people go to cottages in the highlands"
Obviously I'm not saying that working class people never do this. That would be absurd. But, yes, its a pattern of behaviour I would associate with the middle class. Not for financial reasons necessarily. Working class youngsters are less likely to move far from their families for example- so might be hosting Christmas or expecting to visit nearby relatives on boxing day.
"Working class people aren't like your neighbour. She sounds like someone in poverty. She may also be working class, but the 2 aren't connected"
Unfortunately where I live there is very widespread poverty and it absolutely is working class people who experience it. Its a very common working class experience in my area, at the moment. Obviously not saying all working class people are in poverty- that's clearly not the case. But to say that poverty isn't connected to class: really?! At all?!.
To be frank, a statement like that just shows the danger in seeing class a solely to do with tastes, culture and background."
I don't mean to keep picking on you unlimited but I think all the above is showing is that you don't have an understanding of what defines class, and I suspect you think middle class is achieved my patterns of behaviour (hiring a cottage rather than a caravan, buying at waitrose rather than sainsbury, reading the indi rather than the sun)
But these are ultimately consumer Decisons driven by marketing and you "buying" a lifestyle.
This is the generally accepted definition of middle class on MN- what you spend your money on dictates your class. But that's not what class is about.
People of all classes live in poverty. Tbh the people you describe- long term unemployed, living off benefits inadequate for their needs, social problems etc.. They are not people who fit into the definition of working class, as class is, of course, driven by work.
That is a relatively new phenomena based on the fact that in the Olden days the very poorest weren't really considered part of society at all. Unkind people label them the "under class" - not fitting into any class system.