Billsykesdog The relevance of the story of my own redundancy - which would have been obvious to most people except the most blinkered was that, contrary to your statement, it would indeed have been possible for notices of (risk of) redundancy to go out immediately following the vote. Let me repeat again for the slow-witted: to most many people receiving notices of being at risk, they know that the end result will indeed by redundancy. They may well be in tears (it's not a nice process either for the sender or the receiver of such notices) 
And my recollection of the threads when people were saying that they were going to have to make people redundant (and were told that they were lying) was that they weren't talking about hundreds (difficult for me to search to confirm my recollection as I'm using the MN app): they were talking about knowing that they would be losing contracts and for the sake of the survival of their business, they would have to make people redundant.
Companies like this one www.dezeen.com/2016/07/07/brexit-crisis-job-losses-project-uncertainty-architecture-construction-industry/ mere days after the result. Unless you're saying that that was a lie.
Or this one - larger, so needs consultation www.constructionenquirer.com/2016/09/26/arup-blames-brexit-for-planned-job-cuts/
Or here www.bdonline.co.uk/architects-shed-jobs-as-brexit-fallout-begins/5082489.article
I could go on. 
Collectively, they add up - and we've not even left yet 
Lots of imaginary redundancies 
I was going to mention how much more difficult dh's job - which is to encourage inward investment - has become since the vote - but that would be anecdotal and inadmissable (but not less real) as well.
On the positive side, it means that in his field, his role becomes all the more necessary (whether he can thole the politics is another matter
)
You don't need to feel sad for my friend. She is after all, only virtual to you. But I do feel sad - and angry - for her, because I am an empathetic human being, who doesn't like her friends being upset. Her distress is real. She did make an analogy to 1930s Germany today, which resonated with me because of this thread (which she knows nothing about, as she doesn't "do" MN). You can continue to think she is imaginary - even though I know she is real.
Just as the rise in racist attacks is imaginary. Just as the fall in the value of the pound is imaginary. 
For all I know, you are a hairy armed trucker from Russia who is deliberately trying to destabilise the UK.
I have actually met many MNers in real-life and for the most part, they are lovely people who have become real-life friends. So I'm not going to accuse you of lying or making things up, because I try to think the best of people until proven otherwise.