OH has always loved watching "adult themed" clips. I'm fine with that. I like watching Bake Off and he's fine with that.
Sometimes I join him in his man cave and watch with him and we re-enact what we are watching (no weird crap!)
Last night I went through to join him as I was feeling a little frisky. When I went in I was shocked to find he had basically connected his genitals to an electrical box (it's called e-stim) so he could enjoy his viewing hands free! He was also inhaling from a small bottle of poppers (takes me back!).
I'm pretty open minded but was a tad shocked at the site if him if I'm honest. Love him to bits and wondering if I should just let him crack on or perhaps time to discuss our sex life? It's great generally so never seen the need to discuss but wonder if his tastes and mine have diverged.
He offered to "wire me up" but not sure I want to go down that road.
Thoughts?