I am 5ft 9, and was fat at 16 stone 6 and looked just big all over , but had body blindness and just couldn't see it, now 5 stone lighter and look completely different, but still some people would class me as overweight. I have a defined figure now, slim legs, but have a broad back and shoulders, have even gone down half a size in shoes and you can see the bones in my feet, spine, shoulders and rib cage, bust size shrunken to 34d from 40DD! But do know what, i am delighted, don't give a stuff what anyone else thinks, I know I look and feel great, get compliments and at 50+ feel alive and active, we are all different and unique in our own way so viva la difference , be happy with what you've got, best way to look good is to have the biggest smile on your face not the smallest outfit you can wear with the label stuck out for all to see :)