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to ask her wtf?

146 replies

hhh333 · 14/08/2016 17:01

Just got back off a camping trip with a group of friends. Family A and Family B. The first day everyone was happy. Family A invited mutual friends up to stop for the night, great stuff as they're good friends and we don't see them often.
Wife A monopolised them a fair bit but we kind or expected that as she likes to be centre of attention. The next day she was beginning to get a bit frosty and said she wanted family time and could we all do our own thing. Not a problem with us or Family B. We all met up later on to go to the entertainment together. She spent the evening with a sour face complaining about everything and saying she'd rather be with her family playing rounders than sat with us. They left early, thank god.

The next morning she was barely making eye contact with us and invited her own friends up for the day. We left them to it but on the evening I asked her over for drinks at our tent. The answer was a firm no and by this point she couldn't even make eye contact with us. She'd blanked us all day.

The next day she invited her family up and spent the day with them, pretending we didn't exist whenever we walked past each other.

It was bonkers. I felt like I was back in secondary school with the way she was acting. Nothing had happened that we could thing of to spark it, she just decided to turn in to Queen Bitch.

We agreed with Family B to pretend it wasn't happening and get on with having fun together. She was gunning for a fight and we didn't want to give her it but now that we're back I'm furious. She did her very best to spoil our holiday over nothing.

Aibu to message her asking wtf?

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BendydickCuminsnatch · 14/08/2016 19:25

Oooooooh I need to know what the reply is!!!!

Thelyingbitchandthewardrobe · 14/08/2016 19:26

What did the DH say? Must be ridiculous

Familyof3or4 · 14/08/2016 19:27

Shameless place marking

pissedglitter · 14/08/2016 19:28

I bet it's something so stupid and not worth all the crap

Boogers · 14/08/2016 19:29

I think not asking and just getting on with things will piss her off even more, and this is exactly what I'd be inclined to do! Grin

scottishegg · 14/08/2016 19:30

Marking my place 😜

LewisAndClark · 14/08/2016 19:30

Oooh I love a bit of playground style drama. Blatant place marking.

amidestinedtobechubbyforlife · 14/08/2016 19:30

Sounds like she needs a right good biff kick! Sorry for the crude term it's my favourite.

TheCrumpettyTree · 14/08/2016 19:32

And what was up?

QOD · 14/08/2016 19:32

I'm not place marking 😗

Bertieboo1 · 14/08/2016 19:33

Me neither Wink

BrieAndChilli · 14/08/2016 19:33

I bet she backed herself into a corner one day and was waiting for you all to dawn all her asking what was wrong and when you didn't she didn't know what to do!

MrsRaegan · 14/08/2016 19:33

I'm overly invested in this.

turtlesallthewaydown · 14/08/2016 19:33

I would never place mark.

FlyHighLittleBee · 14/08/2016 19:33

Me neither Shock

Flisspaps · 14/08/2016 19:34

I've just dropped something here...don't mind me

OneFlewOverTheDodosNest · 14/08/2016 19:34

She sounds like a complete child - I'd waver between laughing at her tantrum and being really annoyed that someone thinks it's acceptable to be such a twat...

beccabanana · 14/08/2016 19:35

You don't think the friend she invited on the first night said anything about you that's got under her skin but she's not had the balls to come out with it? Just a thought as by the sounds of it, all was ok, then her other friend turned up and it went downhill?

HarryPottersMagicWand · 14/08/2016 19:35

Did this happen? You just got back from camping, in the space of 2 hours after getting back, when everything is a pain and you have loads of sorting out to do, you have had a thread on MN, realise you have been deleted off Facebook, your DH has had chance to ask after you said don't, even though he didn't want to originally, and now you are keeping everyone hanging on when you could have just said in your last update.

Apologies if it's genuine, but when threads get more dramatic quite quickly, it's often not for a good reason.

ProcrastinatorGeneral · 14/08/2016 19:35

Dramallama for sure.

hhh333 · 14/08/2016 19:36

I'll let you all know as soon as I do! He's read the message but not replied yet. I have a feeling he'll try to brush it off though so don't get your hopes up. He should have asked her directly, that would have got interesting results!

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user1471098628 · 14/08/2016 19:38
TeaRexit · 14/08/2016 19:39

She sounds about 10. Ignore her.

Fluffycloudland77 · 14/08/2016 19:40

I wouldn't have asked her, it drives drama queens mad.

hhh333 · 14/08/2016 19:41

It's definitely real! If I was going to troll I'd do it properly over something really inflammatory.
Got back yesterday. There's only a gap in posting from putting the kids to bed.

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