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posh/ pretentious boys names ?!

492 replies

isitseptemberyet · 13/08/2016 12:07

Looking for help with 'snobby' boys names ! Apparently that's the type my OH and I like! We like Hugo & Leonard atm but really want something we Love, have nine weeks left,
would really appreciate any suggestions :)

OP posts:
Wdigin2this · 14/08/2016 15:10

What's wrong with Michael, David, John, Peter etc?
There again, have whatever you like!

Empress13 · 14/08/2016 15:13

Clarence
Tarquin
Jolyon
Amadeus
Bartholomew

Wdigin2this · 14/08/2016 15:15

Also, pleeeease think about your child's future when you choose an unusual name! I have an androgynous name, which is extremely uncommon where I live....and I bloody hate it!!!!

Benedikte2 · 14/08/2016 15:16

Kitten. Evelyn was originally a boys name but I think the author Evelyn Waugh was in the last generation where it was much used for boys. Now days generally a girls name. Likewise Jocelyn which was used as a boys name from mediaeval times but unlikely to be used now as regarded as definitely a girls name. Other boys to girls names are Hilary, Shirley, Kim.
A number of the names used for both tend to be spelled differently but even so once the name becomes really popular for girls parents start to shun it for boys lest it appear too feminine. Leslie/Lesley not very popular now but more women bear it than men. Can see the same thing happening with Ashley/Ashleigh.

Binkermum29 · 14/08/2016 15:16

REX

maisiejones · 14/08/2016 15:17

Actually, I think a number of these names are quite chavvy, ie. Harrison. A very long way from posh imo.

Dailymailbastards · 14/08/2016 15:19

Liz70 Fellatio?

I know it's not the done thing to take the piss out of baby namessage but ........

Benedikte2 · 14/08/2016 15:19

Wdigin -- surely too many of these? Unless there are family reasons for John it sounds almost as if the parents either couldn't be bothered to think of a name or were unable to agree on one. Good friend called John told me the latter circumstance was why he was named John.

Benedikte2 · 14/08/2016 15:20

Daily -- maybe it was autocorrect? I can't type DM without it automatically being changed to Adam,

thebakerwithboobs · 14/08/2016 15:22

There was a Horatio in one of my classes years ago. I don't know what nickname his parents used but at school he was affectionately known as Fellatio Grin

isitseptemberyet · 14/08/2016 15:22

Don't worry i wouldn't go with a name too wildly outside the norm, i don't dislike my child (!) and i think you definitely have to live and move within a certain circle to get away with some of these names ! :-D

I do love the way all th names sound though and greatly appreciate the suggestions, won't be going for Leonard anymore (cant remember the name of th poster but the description of their idea of a leonard- 'second hand car sales man with slip on shoes' had me and my OH in stitches! ):-D
But Hugo is still in the running :)

OP posts:
NoncommittalToSparkleMotion · 14/08/2016 15:22

I don't know if Julian has already been mentioned. But that's one name I hear in the "wealthier" part of town.

Leopold
Silas
Miles/Milo

BennyTheBall · 14/08/2016 15:23

My ds goes to school with a few pretentiously poshly named boys including:

Barty
Herbert
Atticus (2 of those)
Hugo
Inigo
Rupert
and Angus.

There is also a Kyle in his class. I feel sorry for Kyle Grin

Benedikte2 · 14/08/2016 15:25

I love naming pets because I can use the names I like and not worry about what the other kids at school may think -- I give "proper names". Was once a breeder of pedigree animals and had a ball. All the names That might have been considered too pouncey or old fashion etc etc.
Can I suggest this to folk who might be tempted to saddle a DD or DS with a doubtful name?

Icklepickle101 · 14/08/2016 15:26

My baby DS is a Hugo and I've had so many compliments on it!! If I have another DS he will be Henry!

Benedikte2 · 14/08/2016 15:29

OP To me Hugo seems to reach the balance of being "well bred" but not too pretentious. I'd couple it up with Ptolemy or Alexander.
You need to have some other names to hand though just in case you look at him and know he just doesn't look like a Hugo.

mrswhiplington · 14/08/2016 15:36

Jolyon
Joceyln
Tristram
Rafe

TattyDevine · 14/08/2016 15:59

Nigel

TattyDevine · 14/08/2016 15:59

Stay away from Jayden, Brayden and Caiden and you'll be fine Grin

highclassmamma · 14/08/2016 16:05

Guy
Benedict
Peregrine
Gabriel
Dominic
Ralph

I8toys · 14/08/2016 16:06

Columba and Ferrin

Bluechip · 14/08/2016 16:09

kitten

  1. Evelyn can be both, I'm sure you didn't put your foot in it. Evelyn Waugh the author was a bloke

  2. I absolutely love Isambard and for the same reasons. Great name.

Bluechip · 14/08/2016 16:10

I do also know a Jocelyn who's a boy though. (Joss for short, lovely name).)

Cool1Cat · 14/08/2016 16:11

Torquil
Homer
Angel
Plato
Cuthbert

IfTheCapFitsWearIt · 14/08/2016 16:14

Isambard

Frobisher

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